So I was debating with friends tonight, who know way more on the topic of lucid dreaming than me (they're studying it in school) .. but I read for about 20 minutes tonight and understand the basics.

I tryed explaining to them that I have, since I was 10 or 12, been able to control my dreams. Not full control though. I have tried, but somethings I just can't make happen (fantasies). Occasionally I can change a situation.. but no matter what situation I am in, I have full control.

These happen every 2-3 nights. However I have gone in stretchs of 10-13 days without remember a dream. Another strange point, the only dreams I remember, are ones that are lucid. I do not remember any other dreams.

One of my friends tried to explain to me, that scientifically, this is impossible. It is impossible to have full control dreams every 2-3 nights. From what I have read in this forum, you people are able to have full control because you have practiced various techniques that help you in this area... I have never done any such studying.. I am just this way.

So basically, my question to you is, am I an exception to science (which really would just freak me out) .. or is his opinion on this not being possible just false, and how would I go about explaining this to him?

Nice community you have here, I just may be sticking around (unless I am deemed crazy).