Suddently when I think back on my previous dreams in a lot of dreams without being aware that I dreamed. An example: I had this dream were my brother was going into this shop then suddently his head and every one else head exploded (lots of gore), then this really big monster (kinda like some of the Halo monsters, but it was all blood red) ran after me. For some reason I can't run fast enough and I keep going in slow mode and falling over. I also see an other man running in an other direction, but the monster run after me. Then I suddently just tell my self "the monster will not follow me any more, it will follow the other man" really strict and the monster run after the man instead, I could also control a lot of other stuff happening later in the dream like when we were at some base to protect our self I just said "the monsters will run away" and the monsters ran away.

Basicly some times I can control my dreams without being aware that I dream (not very often, it's rare), but in normal dreams I can not control anything, stuff will just happen.

So was this a dream where I could control some important parts without being lucid or was it a lucid dream?