Weird dream that keeps bugging ME!

**SafetyMoose** · 11-13-2010 06:02 PM

Well I had this dream which i don't want to discuss with friends or family. This Dream is bugging ME I Want to know what it means its driving me nuts i am actually searching for this woman!!!!!!

Well it all started where i met this russian girl at my school baseball diamond she had a Russian accent and was new to this country. We had a chat and became friends we went to school together. I invited her to my house for dinner then after that she left. In the morning she told me she was gonna be deported and didn't want to go. So I told her that I would marry her to prevent her from getting deported, She seemed so happy. So we had everything straitened out. I then went to the place to get the marriage licenses we started filling it out then I suddenly woke up! In the dream I felt that I really loved the girl. We were gona go through everything together. I even left my school friends(in the dream) just to be with her. Weird. In total my family is good. I got great friends and I am 16 years old in grade 11. I don't know what could have caused this. I have had some girl friends in the past. Can someone help its driving me nuts.

tell me if you need more details I can supply them.

**SafetyMoose** · 11-14-2010 10:56 PM

sorry for double post but i need an interpretation

**travellight27** · 11-15-2010 12:14 AM

Well it all started where i met this russian girl at my school baseball diamond she had a Russian accent and was new to this country. We had a chat and became friends we went to school together. I invited her to my house for dinner then after that she left. In the morning she told me she was gonna be deported and didn't want to go. So I told her that I would marry her to prevent her from getting deported, She seemed so happy. So we had everything straitened out. I then went to the place to get the marriage licenses we started filling it out then I suddenly woke up! In the dream I felt that I really loved the girl. We were gona go through everything together. I even left my school friends(in the dream) just to be with her. Weird. In total my family is good. I got great friends and I am 16 years old in grade 11. I don't know what could have caused this. I have had some girl friends in the past. Can someone help its driving me nuts.

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Hi...Ok this is not a dream about a girl that exists in reality. What the dream message is about is that there is a possibility in the future you will meet a girl that you really like or love even. The fact that the girl is "Russian" can mean two things and probably both, knowing that dreams use word play a lot and double symbols. The girl is Russian...no.1 could mean the girl is really Rushing things and no.2 Russian can mean the girl likes to be the boss, tell you what to do, as if living in a communist country...in other words, the girl would have the ability to control you and tell you what you can and cannot do. Also there is another caution within the dream...you say .."you leave your friends" ...meaning relationships come and go , but friendships are really important and NO relationship should ever come between friends, nor should anyone ever ignore their friends just because they are in a relationship. It's not cool when people do that or a girl or boyfriend dictate one's friendships.
...to sum it up....In the near future you could become involved in a new relationship. You must be careful not to let this person control you in any way or ignore your friends . A good relationship is based on loving someone enough to not try and control that person. So if you meet a girl you really really like or love and she's bossy ...Warning!!!!

TL

**SafetyMoose** · 11-15-2010 04:33 AM

Originally Posted by travellight27

Well it all started where i met this russian girl at my school baseball diamond she had a Russian accent and was new to this country. We had a chat and became friends we went to school together. I invited her to my house for dinner then after that she left. In the morning she told me she was gonna be deported and didn't want to go. So I told her that I would marry her to prevent her from getting deported, She seemed so happy. So we had everything straitened out. I then went to the place to get the marriage licenses we started filling it out then I suddenly woke up! In the dream I felt that I really loved the girl. We were gona go through everything together. I even left my school friends(in the dream) just to be with her. Weird. In total my family is good. I got great friends and I am 16 years old in grade 11. I don't know what could have caused this. I have had some girl friends in the past. Can someone help its driving me nuts.

tell me if you need more details I can supply them.

Hi...Ok this is not a dream about a girl that exists in reality. What the dream message is about is that there is a possibility in the future you will meet a girl that you really like or love even. The fact that the girl is "Russian" can mean two things and probably both, knowing that dreams use word play a lot and double symbols. The girl is Russian...no.1 could mean the girl is really Rushing things and no.2 Russian can mean the girl likes to be the boss, tell you what to do, as if living in a communist country...in other words, the girl would have the ability to control you and tell you what you can and cannot do. Also there is another caution within the dream...you say .."you leave your friends" ...meaning relationships come and go , but friendships are really important and NO relationship should ever come between friends, nor should anyone ever ignore their friends just because they are in a relationship. It's not cool when people do that or a girl or boyfriend dictate one's friendships.
...to sum it up....In the near future you could become involved in a new relationship. You must be careful not to let this person control you in any way or ignore your friends . A good relationship is based on loving someone enough to not try and control that person. So if you meet a girl you really really like or love and she's bossy ...Warning!!!!

TL

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I like your point of view on this. This could be the reason why.

**Burned up** · 11-15-2010 02:10 PM

Dreams about yearning for love/oneness with another are not unusual but they are very powerful - probably second only to nightmares for their ability to affect us for hours or even days afterwards.

I believe there can be many things wrapped up in dreams like yours, and TL has offered you an interpretation of these, but the central theme for me is your strong feeling for this girl. Maybe it's like she enchants you somehow, but if so it's down to what's going on for you and nothing to do with the real her. My personal belief is that we're tapping into a feeling from infancy where we felt safe,secure and loved by those closest to us. Also that we felt torn apart when we realise just how alone and individual we really are and that there isn't someone there for us 24/7. We spend our lives trying to find a lover to recapture that state of closeness and sometimes it will work but usually only for a short while until the person in question turns out not to be the person in our fantasies, but in fact a real person with real thoughts and feelings about things other than ourself.

Although dreams like this leave us feeling we've lost love, I think in fact they remind us how much we are drawn to love. The challenge is to accept someone as they really are rather than what our fantasies and dreams would like them to be. And that applies whether you're 16 or 116.

In short, don't waste your time looking for the feeling in the real world, because you'll always be disappointed. Welcome it into your dreams and get to know your dream girl where she really exists ("she" will sometimes take the form of a person known to you and sometimes - usually in my case - a complete stranger). For more information on this idea, look up Jung's description of the "anima" - just google "jung anima" for shedloads of information.

**SafetyMoose** · 11-17-2010 11:15 PM

Originally Posted by Burned up

Dreams about yearning for love/oneness with another are not unusual but they are very powerful - probably second only to nightmares for their ability to affect us for hours or even days afterwards.

I believe there can be many things wrapped up in dreams like yours, and TL has offered you an interpretation of these, but the central theme for me is your strong feeling for this girl. Maybe it's like she enchants you somehow, but if so it's down to what's going on for you and nothing to do with the real her. My personal belief is that we're tapping into a feeling from infancy where we felt safe,secure and loved by those closest to us. Also that we felt torn apart when we realise just how alone and individual we really are and that there isn't someone there for us 24/7. We spend our lives trying to find a lover to recapture that state of closeness and sometimes it will work but usually only for a short while until the person in question turns out not to be the person in our fantasies, but in fact a real person with real thoughts and feelings about things other than ourself.

Although dreams like this leave us feeling we've lost love, I think in fact they remind us how much we are drawn to love. The challenge is to accept someone as they really are rather than what our fantasies and dreams would like them to be. And that applies whether you're 16 or 116.

In short, don't waste your time looking for the feeling in the real world, because you'll always be disappointed. Welcome it into your dreams and get to know your dream girl where she really exists ("she" will sometimes take the form of a person known to you and sometimes - usually in my case - a complete stranger). For more information on this idea, look up Jung's description of the "anima" - just google "jung anima" for shedloads of information.

I like what your saying thats a good interpretation. I guess all she is is just fantasy

**Burned up** · 11-18-2010 09:30 AM

SafetyMoose - I would drop the word "just". Fantasies are part of being human and are an important part of the way we think. If everything was rational it would be like we had no imagination, no scope for choice, probably no consciousness at all. It's fantasies that bring out new possibilities for us - and I don't mean huge fantasies about gorgeous movie stars or being a millionaire - many fantasies are brief and everyday. The "love" fantasy is a big one though, and we do ourselves well identify it - as you have - before it hurts us.