In the dream "she" is a projection of someone you've created - might be the real person's image but it's not her. If you start to confuse the two, you may find yourself coming across a bit weird to the real life person. Your real-life feelings and your dream-life projection are almost certainly linked.
So, in short, she's yours. Which is a good thing, because you can learn a lot from "her" by bringing "her" to consciousness, and even having conversations with "her". (Try not to do this aloud in earshot of others, though). How does "she" feel about different people/events? Can you ask "her" to take another form if "her" current form is confusing you?
I suspect this is an example of what Jung calls "the anima". Anima projection is best recognised for what it is. Here's a good article:
Anima Projection by Doug Mosely
By familiarising yourself with your anima, you will feel more comfortable with your feminine side, (at the risk of sounding cheesy).
|
|
Bookmarks