I keep seeing a girl in my dreams...

**SwagLord41123** · 06-25-2011 05:53 PM

Hello guys, I was wondering why I keep seeing this girl in my dreams. I can't say it is the exact same girl every time because, well, she isn't. She is in a completely different body, I just know it is the exact same girl because she doesn't act any different, and I always feel the same. It does always start out with the same girl I have in these dreams, but every time I see her she will change, yet I always find myself attracted to her. She always changes into a girl I like or have liked.

I always feel like I am in love with her, and I basically stalk her. She apparently like me, because we have kissed. I get a weird feeling every time we kiss, kind of unsatisfactory. I'm 15 years old, obviously male, and being completely honest, I've never had a girlfriend. I've always liked girls, but my parents made it very clear I don't need a girlfriend, I need to focus on my grades. I want to get into a good college, preferably the United States Naval Academy, so I don't have problems with this. Also, during my dreams like this, I always seem to be older and more physically fit. I'm not in the best shape of my life right now, but I'm working on it. I look to be 17 or 18 in my dreams.

If you need to know anything else, just ask, I will try to edit this as I get more information.

**underhiswing** · 06-25-2011 09:46 PM

First reality.....It is perfectly normal for a 15 year old to have girl friends and good grades at the same time. Additionally, if you don't first have a few girlfriends, how will you possibly know that the "right one" has come along and how would you know she is any different from the other girls?

Your dream shows that you are interested (stalking her) and you are suppressing it (revealed by dreaming about it). Your repulsion AFTER kissing her symbolically represents your repulsion to the guilt you feel AFTER you have disobeyed your parents by getting that involved with her(who have asked an impossible thing of you, by not allowing girlfriends). It also reveals that you know the truth....that "good grades" are really not what your parents are fearing. They really fear you getting sexually active, and that is something that you can honor and still have girlfriends. That part would involve communication and a strong will. You need to discuss with your parents your desire to have girlfriends and tell them that you can maintain your grades and will respect girls and not take advantage of them physically or emotionally. You may find them relenting on their overly protective ideas. By the way....you are blessed to have very caring parents.