Really strange dream. HELP!

**TJaradi1** · 05-12-2012 03:05 PM

Hi I had such a strange dream last night and I can't figure out what its about. I dreamt that my husband had started hanging around with these really scary, gang-like people. They were all Hispanic (not being racist or anything its just important to know that later on). Anyway, we had just bought this brand new house and my friends Amanda and Krista were over helping us set up the place. In real life, Amanda, Krista, and I work together and we hang out alot. Krista and I are both military wives so we bond over out husbands' crazy schedules, etc. and we are there for each other a lot when we're going though things. Amanda and I are always laughing and having fun when we are together but we aren't that close.

Back to the dream, I knew my husband and his friends we're outside drinking while we set up the house and it was dark out. The girls were in the bedroom unpacking and sweeping any trash off the floor. I walked into the bathroom to set a few things down and I noticed this vase my mother gave to us was broken (in real life, my mother never gave us a vase so I don't know where that came from) I got really upset because apparently it was important to me. I walked into the bedroom to ask my friends if they had broken it or dropped it, they said no and I told them it was important to me because my mother had given it to us as a housewarming present when we first got married.

At that point I noticed my husband and his friends came inside so I went to ask him if he knew anything about it. He kept looking at me weird like "what are you doing?" he just shrugged so I threw the broken pieces away outside on the patio. His friends and him were wearing this really dark green camouflage uniform with black vests on. (I remember that vividly because its not my husbands normally military uniform color) When I walked back in he grabbed me really hard and started telling me to kiss him or else and I kept telling him no not in front of his friends and he and his friends started yelling in Spanish (my husband and I DO NOT speak Spanish) but everything they said were in white subtitles like a movie and they/subtitles were saying "DO IT LISTEN TO YOUR MAN" my husband then whispered that if I didn't do it they would shoot me in my ear at that point i noticed that they all had their guns out. I kissed my husband and he then swung me around and threw me and then they shot at me and a bullet hit me in my right side and I could feel the pain. I heard them yelling at me in Spanish that I was a sinner and I sinned so they shot me. At that point, the subtitles were blood red. My husband then leaned over and said that he complained to them about me so they said they'd take me out and he wouldn't have to deal with me anymore.

I then woke up with my right side in so much pain(a day later and it still hurts pretty bad). This dream was definitely strange because my husband is not abusive or controlling. He's really very loving and caring and would never hang out with "bad seeds". I don't understand this dream at all and would like so help interpreting it.

Thanks in advance to any help!

**ElizVanZee** · 05-27-2012 11:18 PM

In dreams your husband will represent your mind (as does any male) and show you how your mind is thinking. In this scene you might be seeing yourself thinking realistically (husband outside) when your mind has started using some undesirable ideas, perhaps the idea of acting tough (hanging around with gang-like people) which is actually quite foreign to your nature (they were all Hispanic), You have just acquired a new mental attitude or way of thinking (bought this brand new house), one in which a negative idea or feeling can actually work to your benefit (2 named female friends helping set up the place)

Your mind, thinking perhaps in terms of acting tough, is satisfying its thirst or desire but without any intelligence being used. (dark out) Some work also needs to be done on an emotional level regarding a personal point of view. (girls unpacking and sweeping in the bedroom) Where there could be room for acknowledging some sin or guilt (bathroom) an idea is seen that now appears imperfect or useless. (broken vase) The vase would imply an idea or situation that serves as a receptacle for wisdom (as it hold flowers). It is possible that the wisdom might be associated with the idea of compliments to the lady of the house – an idea that was more “present” when you first got married. [Does your husband ever compliment you on your appearance, housekeeping, cooking etc.? Could acting tough mentally be a way of avoiding to feel hurt?] The wisdom of compliments to yourself is unrealistically being seen as coming from/of your own personal inherited belief system. (mother had given it to us – when in fact she never did give you a vase) You should be very upset that the idea of compliments to yourself is an unusable idea because it is important to the True Self. The loss of the idea of compliments to yourself extends into the bedroom, which I assume is the master bedroom, implying it affects the marital relationship. [If you cannot in your own mind compliment yourself on things you have done well, your husband in physical reality will not do so either. It all starts within your own mind.]

You may need to question your own mind about how this idea (the vase) came to be no longer functional or useful. (ask if he knew anything about it) Mentally you may find it weird to even ask such a question. Because of the mental lack of interest in what has made an idea no longer functional (he just shrugged) you literally toss the idea out (threw pieces outside) – but note they are not relegated to a trash can; it is not meant to be seen as a worthless idea. Your mind appears to be functioning in militaristic fashion (military uniforms), perhaps simply according to its training or aggressively or perhaps just obeying orders in this situation. The dark green implies very worldly thinking that is rather negative applies to this way of functioning and to the situation your mind is in. (Here again a situation and mental function is not seen realistically. You seem expected to show affection for this style of thinking or there could be consequences. (telling me to kiss him or else) but you know this is not the time or the place for this response.

What your mind is forcing you to listen to is very foreign to you and to the True Self and very open to interpretation. (what was said is in subtitles like a movie) Your mind and its idea of acting tough seems part of some self delusion. Where your intelligence is influenced by the idea of acting tough, you appear to be forcing yourself to listen to what your mind is telling you - because if you do not, you could end up being very critical of yourself for not listening to your own self instructions (they would shoot me in my ear) When you show affection for a way of thinking influenced by the idea of acting tough, you end up mentally abusing yourself and while the self criticism may seem correct (bullet hit right side) it is inflicting emotional pain. The interpretation you put upon your own self delusions is seen as reflecting a dangerous sacrifice. (subtitles in blood red) Mentally complaining about yourself while living with the idea of acting/being tough makes you vulnerable to complete emotional devastation. (they said they’d take me out) Your way of thinking is “killing” – seriously hurting - your True Self.

**Phion** · 05-27-2012 11:33 PM

Originally Posted by ElizVanZee

In dreams your husband will represent your mind (as does any male) and show you how your mind is thinking. In this scene you might be seeing yourself thinking realistically (husband outside) when your mind has started using some undesirable ideas, perhaps the idea of acting tough (hanging around with gang-like people) which is actually quite foreign to your nature (they were all Hispanic), You have just acquired a new mental attitude or way of thinking (bought this brand new house), one in which a negative idea or feeling can actually work to your benefit (2 named female friends helping set up the place)

Your mind, thinking perhaps in terms of acting tough, is satisfying its thirst or desire but without any intelligence being used. (dark out) Some work also needs to be done on an emotional level regarding a personal point of view. (girls unpacking and sweeping in the bedroom) Where there could be room for acknowledging some sin or guilt (bathroom) an idea is seen that now appears imperfect or useless. (broken vase) The vase would imply an idea or situation that serves as a receptacle for wisdom (as it hold flowers). It is possible that the wisdom might be associated with the idea of compliments to the lady of the house – an idea that was more “present” when you first got married. [Does your husband ever compliment you on your appearance, housekeeping, cooking etc.? Could acting tough mentally be a way of avoiding to feel hurt?] The wisdom of compliments to yourself is unrealistically being seen as coming from/of your own personal inherited belief system. (mother had given it to us – when in fact she never did give you a vase) You should be very upset that the idea of compliments to yourself is an unusable idea because it is important to the True Self. The loss of the idea of compliments to yourself extends into the bedroom, which I assume is the master bedroom, implying it affects the marital relationship. [If you cannot in your own mind compliment yourself on things you have done well, your husband in physical reality will not do so either. It all starts within your own mind.]

You may need to question your own mind about how this idea (the vase) came to be no longer functional or useful. (ask if he knew anything about it) Mentally you may find it weird to even ask such a question. Because of the mental lack of interest in what has made an idea no longer functional (he just shrugged) you literally toss the idea out (threw pieces outside) – but note they are not relegated to a trash can; it is not meant to be seen as a worthless idea. Your mind appears to be functioning in militaristic fashion (military uniforms), perhaps simply according to its training or aggressively or perhaps just obeying orders in this situation. The dark green implies very worldly thinking that is rather negative applies to this way of functioning and to the situation your mind is in. (Here again a situation and mental function is not seen realistically. You seem expected to show affection for this style of thinking or there could be consequences. (telling me to kiss him or else) but you know this is not the time or the place for this response.

What your mind is forcing you to listen to is very foreign to you and to the True Self and very open to interpretation. (what was said is in subtitles like a movie) Your mind and its idea of acting tough seems part of some self delusion. Where your intelligence is influenced by the idea of acting tough, you appear to be forcing yourself to listen to what your mind is telling you - because if you do not, you could end up being very critical of yourself for not listening to your own self instructions (they would shoot me in my ear) When you show affection for a way of thinking influenced by the idea of acting tough, you end up mentally abusing yourself and while the self criticism may seem correct (bullet hit right side) it is inflicting emotional pain. The interpretation you put upon your own self delusions is seen as reflecting a dangerous sacrifice. (subtitles in blood red) Mentally complaining about yourself while living with the idea of acting/being tough makes you vulnerable to complete emotional devastation. (they said they’d take me out) Your way of thinking is “killing” – seriously hurting - your True Self.

Nice interpretation!