bizzare vivid dream help me

[gibhoorah]

hey guys, i need some ideas about what this dream means. thanks in advance there is this girl at work i have fallen for. i have often caught her looking at me but im pretty sure she is not interested. can't be certain. anyways i had a dream about her last night. i was at work, and she was sitting next to me, she was in a wheel chair (she is not in real life). then next thing some guy comes up to her i had never seen before. then they go out on the back patio and they have trick or treats ready for halloween. they place their candy baskets on a table then they both come back inside, she falls off her wheelchair and this guy grabs both her legs and pushes her back onto the wheelchair by her legs, then i woke up. this was the most vivd dream i have had in a while, was so real. it was like i was meant to pay attention to the details of the dream, just the weirdness of it means something important I woke up feeling sad, because i got the feeling in the dream that this guy represents she has a boyfriend. I am not sure how to interperate this dream, but feel i have to i am just really confused with this one. i am a very intuitive person, but this girl has me stumped. she is a complete mystery. at first i got the impression she may like me cause of how often i have caught her looking at me both directley and out of the corner of my eye, but i have tried to talk to her and all she does is laugh or smile. she never says a word to me, not even a conversation. thats why i am having trouble interperating the dream

[AURON]

Not sure about the dream, but if you've known her for less than a month ask her out. Bring up a movie that you think she wants to see. See her reaction and say "hey we should go see it". If she tries to include friends it just means she's cautious (kinda the vibe I'm getting since she hasn't opened up). Either way, don't waste too much time. Carpe that diem.

[Sensei]

Well, to be honest, all the dream has to do with it is the fact that you actually did like her. I always have dreams about the gals that I like or have liked in the past. As far as the dream itself goes, I would say that it is just mirroring this fact: im pretty sure she is not interested. You don't think she likes you, so the dream either has you seeing her as handicapped and with a boyfriend because you aren't sure if you could take care of her (be more confident) or you are feminist and see all women like that. Anyways. Laughing a lot is either a really good thing, or a really really bad thing. . To be honest dreams are normally interpretations of how you see the situation, or they are random crap thrown together by our subconscious. I would have become lucid and taught her how to walk. Just because it is vivid doesn't mean that it has meaning. It probably means that you slept the right amount of time and woke up in REM. Hope this helps.

[JoannaB]

Alternative interpretation: Her being in a wheel chair in your dream could be your subconscious asking you whether you care enough about her that you would still be interested in her even if she were in a wheel chair. If the answer is yes, you should definitely ask her out. She may say no of course, but you never know until you try, and she might say yes. If she and you work together in a capacity that might cause things to be awkward if you try and it fails, then you might want to be careful to word the invitation in a way that there is an easy out (make it humorous, and kind of not a big deal). The other guy may have just been in that dream to make you jealous or to confirm your doubts, but I suggest that you don't let a dream guy stop you from trying in real life.