Strange dream! Please help!

**Karl13** · 03-12-2013 11:17 AM

Today I had a strange dream. I was on my way to the university when suddenly I was stopped by the voice of a very strange man. He was small and ugly. He had exophthalmia and he was not looking at me directly. "You were just playing with Ashley, didn't you? It was not a love." I answered him "No! Of course not! She was the best girl i've ever met. I love her.." He looked at me and asked "So can you swear to the blood of Christ that you love her for real?" "Yes" - I replied - "I swear to the blood of Christ" and I showed him my wrist and made a cutting move with my forefinger. And while I was talking to him she passed by me and looked at me. She was sad..
After that I woke up. I don't remember anything else.
I should tell you that before we parted four months ago she told me that she had dreams that (as she interpreted) meant that I am not sure about my feelings.

I would be very grateful for your interpratation

**Darkmatters** · 03-12-2013 11:30 AM

I think the dream was showing you what you think she must be feeling. You were sort of putting yourself in her shoes - seeing the situation the way she sees it. I think it only means that you feel bad for her and it troubles you that she feels like you didn't love her.

**Karl13** · 03-12-2013 11:33 AM

Thank you Darkmatters! I appreciate your interpretation..

**Darkmatters** · 03-12-2013 11:40 AM

You're welcome.

The other poissibility that I can see - you might have been sort of putting yourself on trial - testing how you really feel - if you truy loved her or not. From your description of the dream it sounds like you truly did love her.

I just re-read your top post and realised it was only in dreams that she thought you didn't love her - I originally thought she really believed you didn't love her. Her dreams might also have been a trial of sorts - or her own way of examining her own fears. That would be a real shame if she ended the relationship because of dreams that were only showing her her own fears.

**tsiouz** · 03-12-2013 12:09 PM

Guilt.
Sheer guild which you hide and got transfered like an emotion to the subconcious because guilt as christianism is associated through the sexual centre.
You supposed to follow your spouse as long as the urge for her is alive.
If it is finished just let it go.

**Karl13** · 03-12-2013 12:56 PM

Thank you so much Darkmatters and tsiouz for your help and warm welcome! Your interpretations were very helpful for me. If this dream means some kind of trial for me and my feelings then as long as I believe that I love her I will do my best to prove it and convince her that her fears are groundless.
Have a nice day friends!