I'd like to start by explaining the relationships I have with the three people in these dreams. First, my boyfriend of 8 months. We live two hours apart, but have been doing quite well until the past 3 weeks or so. I suppose the distance and constant long drives just for a visit, are really starting to take a toll on us emotionally. But we are still taking things slow and communicating very well. Second, my ex-husband. We have a wonderful relationship. There is no negativity about our divorce, and we work perfectly raising our 3 year old together. Third, my ex-boyfriend from 7 years ago. He was a very emotionally abusive and neglectful person. I've had no contact with him in almost 5 years.
The first dream really stood out to me.... I was sitting at a picnic table with my boyfriend, when I noticed two brown spiders crawling by my right hand. My hand lay palm down on the table and the spiders stopped just before touching my hand. I had no fear of them at all. I noticed they were doing something that looked almost like a dance with their attention focused on my hand. It was amusing and made me feel comforted, yet confused as to why they were "dancing". My boyfriend then told me to move because he thought they would bite me. I couldn't understand why he was telling me to be careful when I felt so safe. I reassured him that they meant no harm. After that the spiders disappeared. I looked down at the side of my hand below my pinky finger and realized I had two very deep holes and swelling. My boyfriend also had a bite on his left hand, although the spiders never touched us. I was shocked and felt almost betrayed by these spiders who made me feel safe (as crazy as that sounds). That was the end of that dream.
The second dream was experienced the same night, which is why I'd really like to get some sort of answer as to what these could mean. It started with me opening a little box which held two rings. One was my engagement ring from my ex-husband, only it was brighter and looked like it was almost glowing. The other was the ring that my ex-boyfriend proposed with 7 years ago, only it actually wasn't. For some reason in my dream I just "knew" that it was the same ring. I placed the ring from my ex-husband on my right ring finger, and then placed the other ring on my left ring finger. The ring I placed on my left hand wouldn't go past my knuckle, and started to grow into a gold vine which delicately wrapped around my finger from my knuckle to the tip of my finger, and back towards my palm. That was the end of it.
Any help interpreting what these could mean would be greatly appreciated.
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