I didn't think firm disagreeing was cranky, should be more of it. You shoulda used angry flaming emoticons, JoannaB.
Like now:
Teeth have always been the hardest for me to pin down. But I've never had one with someone else's teeth falling out, which makes interpretation promising.
Here, I thought they may mean her falling out of love with you. Just after you thought she was close to loving you, one fell out.
And it was almost directly up front - probably you, not her, was aware of the deteriorating condition of your relationship, and you got angry at it, but of course not with her in person.
So I think you related how she treated her car to how she treated the relationship, as she likely would. Even if she didn't, you are apt to feel so. One side has to let it down or both.
DETAILS:
When you first thought she didn't love you, it was no accident, but you played it like it didn't happen. You weren't sure yet.
When you got closer or more intimate with her, part of the relationship - love or attraction - fell out.
Maybe you didn't notice it in her at first, but then you thought it's no big deal, you knew something was coming loose.
But you looking inside her mouth makes me think of communication here. Maybe you can clear this up, dooglax. Did you think she had bad communication? Or was the car analagy for another part of her character perhaps? But you saying to her you need to look after your teeth can't be communication, but it can be attractivenes, on a figurative or personal level.
Whatever it was was in very bad shape, mostly rotting, and falling out with your light touch.
Then you got angry at this falling out with her, lecturing her she should look after the relationship better - perhaps even if it wasn't her fault.
But the other side of you kept telling you she is treating you like her car, that you knew this was happening, you told the authority in you about it that could fix it she neglected it and let it get bad.
You thought she was calm about leaving you, like it was nothing, and that it was no big deal. That's your view of what went wrong. But is it accurate?
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