Thread: Need help interpretating this dream I had about dead mother.

I'm a believer that our loved ones can come back to us in dreams to give us messages. This has happened to me several times, and the messages are often important. However, I'm not saying that's true for you. Therefore, I'll interpret your dream as if it was an ordinary dream.

Being in a club may mean being in a social setting. The guy asking you 'are you ok' may imply that in the dream you where unhappy. Thus, your social life may be impeded to some degree because of your mother's death, or other issues. You're mother in your dream may represent traits that you admire about her; perhaps she was a frank and particle person, or perhaps she was warms and caring: this is up to you. Because she took you to a table, this means that by using these traits you must be an observer in your own life. Ask yourself what needs to be improved in your life, and how you can change it. The cancer may have several meanings... First of all, is there anyone on your mind with cancer? If so, this may mean that you are thinking about this person, and the cancer may be contributing to your current life issues. If you don't know anyone with cancer, then this may mean that an internal issue is hurting you, and you are learning to over-come those issues.

Originally Posted by warriorof

I'm a believer that our loved ones can come back to us in dreams to give us messages. This has happened to me several times, and the messages are often important. However, I'm not saying that's true for you. Therefore, I'll interpret your dream as if it was an ordinary dream.

Being in a club may mean being in a social setting. The guy asking you 'are you ok' may imply that in the dream you where unhappy. Thus, your social life may be impeded to some degree because of your mother's death, or other issues. You're mother in your dream may represent traits that you admire about her; perhaps she was a frank and particle person, or perhaps she was warms and caring: this is up to you. Because she took you to a table, this means that by using these traits you must be an observer in your own life. Ask yourself what needs to be improved in your life, and how you can change it. The cancer may have several meanings... First of all, is there anyone on your mind with cancer? If so, this may mean that you are thinking about this person, and the cancer may be contributing to your current life issues. If you don't know anyone with cancer, then this may mean that an internal issue is hurting you, and you are learning to over-come those issues.

Yeah I remember being unhappy because my mother had cancer and I was worried about her. Then I seen her enter this nightclub and I approached her, then she took me to the table and so on.

Now the reason I'm questioning this dream is because she died in July 2011, I remember dreaming about her just before she passed away so that doesn't count, then a few weeks after her funeral I dreamt of her being dissapointed and warning me about the girlfriend thing. Since then I have not dreamt of her once until yesterday, and that makes it weird for me. Twice I've dreamt of my late mother in a space of 20 months, I don't know why but I'm thinking that maybe it's a sign that my bad luck has come to a end or maybe it's to do with my life, maybe the club represents that I need to get out and live more because I'm currently back in college and I'm never out anymore. Who knows.

Depending on how far you want to go into the Twilight Zone, you could say she could have given you a message beyond the grave. Perhaps when you asked her how her cancer is, you may have actually asked her that in the dream. Then she told you she feels no more pain where she is now. I think maybe she is trying to tell you not to worry about her, and to get back out into the world and start new. That's why your dream took place in a club: it's her way of saying "go party and be happy."

I am thinking that the guy in the dream reminded you of your mother (because he is the same guy who approached you close to the time your mom died), and that may be why she showed up when you saw him in the dream. I see a parallel between the guy asking you "Are you ok?" And you pretty much asking your mother whether she is ok. So I think this dream is maybe themed "Are you ok?" And I think it is asking you that question. Is there something happening in your life right now that would make it questionable whether or not you are ok? It also makes additional sense in this case that your mother showed up because a lot of us if we are not ok think of our mothers I think - it's something we start doing as kids. It's interesting though that it is you who asks your mother this question, and not her asking you, showing concern for you. Of course, your mother could also represent yourself - you might be identifying with your mother in your dream, asking yourself "is the ... Under control" (substitute whatever issue or problem you are facing now for cancer).