kiss from an enemy

**cherrypie** · 01-01-2014 05:37 AM

Happy new year everyone !

This woman that for some reason hates my guts in real life appeared in my dream last night wanting to have sex with me and said the words " you never thought I wanted this or something like you never thought I would do this " ?? she was kissing me and then I woke up. Thankfully we didn't have sex but I didn;t even understand why she would want that , she hates everything about me. And my next question was , why the hell would I dream something like that , I never even look at her as attractive !

Does anybody have thoughts for this , could it be that she is planning another scheme ?

**kadie** · 01-01-2014 06:27 AM

Ever heard- there's a fine line between love and hate?

Maybe it just means that in RL there is someone who is deceiving you and it manifests as this woman that hates you wanting to kiss you. Also consider the play on word like Judas Kiss. Meaning a deceiver or betrayer.

**Wakinyan** · 01-01-2014 01:04 PM

There's a theory that dreams compensates our conscious attitude, which would be one reason we often have disagreeable dreams; the reason for this could be to establish a psychological balance. If I have very high thoughts about my own morals, I may be depicted as a nasty person in my dreams; if I have very high thoughts about my father, he may come through as a villain in my dreams; if I a "hate relationship" with somebody, the dream may show us being lovers instead. In my experience this seems to be the more true the more the attitude is off the tracks so to speak. I don't know if that is the case here, but I thought I could share this information with you.

**JoannaB** · 01-01-2014 01:29 PM

At times when someone dislikes/hates another it may be because something about them reminds one of one's own fault, of something one hates about oneself. Is there anything like that between this woman and you?

If so, then this dream may be about accepting that aspect of yourself. Greater intimacy not with that woman but with a part of your own personality that reminds you of her.

**cherrypie** · 01-01-2014 08:47 PM

I think we have a person in common, she's very close to someone I once was very close to. I broke up the relationship with him because it was not working out , now she's friends with him and for some reason she doesn't want us to be friends anymore.