It's not unusual for intimate couples to share dreams. Still, you should probably explore them individually before making comparisons. Until you know what they mean, there's nothing to compare, you see? Without reading your boyfriend's dream, it's difficult to make any credible suppositions about it, except that it sounds wonderful, not dreadful. As for your dream, you might want to begin by imagining the figure of your dream-bf as an aspect of yourself, maybe a daring (or rash) side of your personality, considering you were jumping from buildings. Maybe a side of your personality sturdy enough to carry you (as on your shoulders). The church image, the emergency call, the numbers 11, the long fall, and the quote from the emergency workers might make more sense once you've sorted out the figures (the people).