also I am agnostic religiously speaking. |
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Sorry idk where I'm supposed this really. Please if it's in the wrong spot my apologies. |
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Last edited by nei21; 07-21-2014 at 10:41 AM.
also I am agnostic religiously speaking. |
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I think dreams of sex are at times not really about sex. These dreams for example could be more about powerlessness and inequality of relations, for example. Also the fact that you see yourself as a child observing this and then another who could be you, your father's age, that could be about a life review, sort of like in the story The Christmas Carol where Scrooge gets visited by ghosts of Christmas past, present and future. So perhaps you are in your dream reviewing your present life as seen from the point of view or in relation to your past and present. It seems that maybe you do not feel in control, and maybe feel taken advantage of, forget about sexually, think mentally or emotionally instead. Also unless you enjoyed these dreams, I do not think they are any indication of any gay desires on your side, not unless you feel gay desires in waking life. These are nightmares, not wish fulfillment I think, they are about fears and concerns, and not literal ones - I don't think you literally fear being raped by your boss, but I think it is your mind's metaphor for what is really bothering you. Even your boss in the dream could represent something or someone else, not necessarily your boss: he could be a stand in for any authority figure, or even a part of yourself that you do not like about yourself and fear and do not want to take control of you. Does any of that sound right/likely to you? |
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You may say I'm a dreamer.
But I'm not the only one - John Lennon
I have a gf who is pregnant and it was unplanned and I have a lot of pressure to marry her that but I don't really get half of how that would have to do with this. I do like my boss normally in the sexual sense so I'm not surprised about the sexual side just like I said it has more to do with more the violence and danger in itself than sex but I don't get what's so dangerous. |
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Maybe your subconscious has decided that sex is dangerous because it can lead to unplanned pregnancies? |
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You may say I'm a dreamer.
But I'm not the only one - John Lennon
Stress can result in violent dreams. When I have a lot of stress, I dream of floods, of monsters and of murderers, even though the stress is just stress in my everyday life like work stress for example, but a stressful mind can generate violent dreams. If that is the cause then working on removing stress from waking life should reduce violence in dreams. |
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You may say I'm a dreamer.
But I'm not the only one - John Lennon
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