Soiled Underwear

[IntheDreaming89]

Alright so I will note that the main male in my dream is my ex, and we only dated for 3 months. I had dreams about him BEFORE meeting him, and the one that sticks out most in my mind was 2 weeks EXACTLY before we met. In that dream we were together, broke up, and then he comes back saying I am the only one that he wants. That one has come true except for the VERY end (him coming back). Also the reason that we broke up was more of the fact that I just quit talking to him, and he seemed to not try to contact me either. He started dating this other girl a month or so later, and I have had her as a star in many of my dreams with him lately. I have never actually met her in real life though. I get along with his parents very well (even though I haven't seen them since we have broken up), and they are both always in my dreams as well when he is in them. About a month ago we talked, and he tried to get me to come over, and have sex with him. Even though he is still with this other girl. I didn't do it, and haven't talked to him since. I still often dream about him, and they are more prevalent when I HAVEN'T thought about him in awhile. Which I haven't for over 3 days before this dream. SO the dream starts out that I go to his house. I am sneaking around in it, and I don't want to get "caught". I am not even sure why I am there. I start hiding in a bathroom (against the toilet), and for some reason him and his current girlfriend come into the room. They start talking, and I am super nervous that they will see me. Then out of nowhere a bed gets put into the bathroom, and they both lay down. I use it as an opportunity to sneak out, but they see me. When the girl looks at me, I just blurt out that he is cheating on her (I do not know in real life if he is). I feel relief when I say it, but I am also nervous that I said it while he was there. His current girlfriend gets mad at him, and leaves him. She starts grabbing things, and taking things out. I go upstairs to a kitchen, and his mother his doing dishes. She tells me that I did the right thing, and that her son needs to learn how to treat women better. Also telling me that she isn't mad at me, and that she knows it was the thing to do. I feel better about Well, after the girl leaves I decide to go down to his room again, and get my things (things that I never actually left at his house). Mostly blankets, and things of that nature. I pull the one blanket off his bed, and start going through a dirty laundry pile, and grabbing other blankets/sheets. Then I come to a pair of white boxers. They are soiled in two spots: one looks like a large faint stain like poop juices, and the other is a small circle in the middle of the larger one that is actual poop. For some reason I feel like these are MY boxers, and I am mad. He seems to be more embarrassed that I found them. He tried to make a joke out of it while he explained that he was trying to fart, and it happened. That seemed to make me less mad, and then I woke up. What could this mean?

[ThreeCat]

LOL, he just couldn't hold it in, I guess I would say there is some wish-fulfillment involved with wanting to stick it to your ex, and also have his parents (who you get along with) support you for doing it, or "be on your side." As for the bed in the bathroom, maybe it means they have a really shitty relationship I would look up dream interpretation methods, and use one that produces results. I really like Fritz Perls's gestalt dream work.

[IntheDreaming89]

LOL, he just couldn't hold it in, I guess I guess hahahaha!!! I woke up like, wait what happened? lol..... It took me a minute to even be sure that was really what he said in my dream! LOL I would say there is some wish-fulfillment involved with wanting to stick it to your ex, and also have his parents (who you get along with) support you for doing it, or "be on your side." As for the bed in the bathroom, maybe it means they have a really shitty relationship I think you are right. I have had prophetic dreams before that tell me that we are meant to be together after he gets his shit together (which will take a long time), and I knew this one wasn't prophetic because the colors weren't in ultra HD, and I can't really draw you a map (like I can on ALL my prophetic dreams). I believe you are right though that the dream was me trying to "stick it to him", and his parents approval of it. Plus, his mother has said that to me before, and would tell me that if he didn't treat me right to say that his mother didn't raise him to act like that. So I think my mind is trying to tell me that I want him to know that he must treat ME right, and that this relationship he is in is "shitty" (the bed in the bathroom). I also want his parents approval when he does come back to me, AFTER his shit is together. That part I kind of figured out earlier.... More that I want him to leave her, and that I want his parents to still approve of me.... I just couldn't figure out why I would own a white pair of boxers, and why he would have soiled them in my dream... I guess the weird part is that a lot of the dreams that involve him involve bathrooms in some way. I had one where he was shitting out the universe, and I saw waiting in the bedroom next to him for him to come to bed.... IDK lol..... The bathroom use makes me really wonder.... HAHAHAHAHA.... and NEVER has he used the bathroom like that with me around. Actually he hasn't ever even farted in front of me. I would look up dream interpretation methods, and use one that produces results. I really like Fritz Perls's gestalt dream work. Thanks for the link though. I will take a look at it here soon to see if it can help me with the last part of my dream lol.