sleeping with mates girlfriends

[Skeens96]

ive always been curious about the meanings of dreams and very conscious of what happens in them. ive had a couple of dreams of sleeping with a mates girlfriend, both different friends, and ive noticed theyre both people I used to be very close to but don't really speak unless we bump into each other now. its not something id ever do so its puzzled me a lot. the first was probably a few months ago, I got along with his girlfriend very well, she was very pretty and that but never attracted to her in that sense. So, I was in my mates garage, where the three of us used to chill out a lot. he went downstairs and into his house and me and his missus started to make out, it was all very intimate and obviously evolved into very passionate sex. He strangely didn't re-appear for the rest of the dream, so this carried on for a while. after wed finished we stopped and sat back down, I felt very awkward but she just couldn't keep her hands off me. it felt somewhat real so I felt horrendous when I woke up. the second was last night, basically the same only I wasn't as close to this mates girlfriend. this happened at my house, somewhere shes never been and he wasn't involved in this dream at all. in general this was a bit stranger, it was in my bathroom, we started vigorously making out, and ended up have passionate sex in the bath of all places. this one ended rather abruptly as I was woken up but still felt very real at the same time. apologies for the lack of detail but that is about all I remember, any help would be much appreciated cheers, Matt

[saccade]

Since the time you used to be friends with these guys and girls - have you met many other women? Or made friends as close as the ones you now say hi to in passing? It is possible that this is merely your way of consolidating the memory that - at the time - you didn't really consider that their relationships were all that "close" as they made out and were mostly physical. It is more likely that this is an internal expression of your connection in yourself (as your personality is maleable and maybe you have been experiencing a shift lately) to the qualities that you perceived in these friends, at the time you knew them. Maybe you are feeling that you have neglected these qualities or relationships. Maybe even cheated yourself out of them, or betrayed the friendships that you once held so close with your mates. Myself, I used to have many friends... At my 21st, there were so many different groups of people, the pub had to pull out extra tables and I'd never seen the landlord smile. Now - I have no close friends, other than my girlfriend who must remain in Argentina. We see each other a few months out of the year, but this is ok because she has many friends, her family, and I have my work. Whether you are with a girl or not currently, the dreams indicate an affirmation in yourself that you not only are entering a period where your sexual intensity is growing (hey, it's spring/summertime - happens to all of us), but that you perhaps are coming to accept that you can be a committed person, as the act of adultery is one that makes you feel uncomfortable, even when there is nothing real. And maybe this, in hindsight, is a little disturbing since you may feel you betrayed your friendships in the past by letting them fade to acquaintency (is that how you spell that word..?), when - before - this was not such an important quality for you to possess as it is now. People come and people go, same as we do. https://youtu.be/mrZRURcb1cM