Although in order to provide a more accurate interpretation it would usually be best to have some additional general background information about you, a few ideas can be tried out to see if they might fit your personal circumstances in some way.
For example, although it’s not very romantic, the appearance of a man in the dreams of a woman at least partly symbolizes her so-called “masculine” side.
This is especially true if the man isn’t someone actually known by the woman.
It looks like your conscious personality is very closely related to emotions and relationships.
If so, the unknown male likely symbolizes other parts of your personality which are less fully developed because they just aren’t used day to day when you’re making decisions and moving through life.
Because of this, the inner man becomes something that is “missing” and you feel “lost” because he isn’t part of your everyday life.
However, from the point of view of the dreams, you two should be spending “a whole lifetime together”.
That is, his presence is as important as the other parts of yourself that were also in the dreams such as family members and close friends.
This all probably sounds a little off the wall but in a practical sense, this inner man’s presence in your life should take the form when needed of such positive “masculine” traits as being assertive, target-orientated, determined, and in showing initiative and clear thinking etc.
For example, the dream about hanging out at the bbq might have something to do with the symbolism surrounding the cooking and eating of food.
Generally speaking, cooking the “raw materials” related to food and then eating the prepared dish represents the eventual “chewing over”, “swallowing” and thinking over the various “raw” experiences in life in order to absorb the “nutrition” of understanding.
Something might have happened before this dream where you didn’t only attach a feeling value to an incident etc., but you possibly thought it over to some extent, so the dream was encouraging you to continue this type of thing by using an attractive romantic symbol of a guy being with you and your family at a bbq.
The dream of making love to him stepped up this image and maybe represents the idea of a really important “union” which took place between not only feeling about something but also in using some other “masculine” trait like being very assertive when it was necessary or you were showing strong initiative about something important etc.
The latest dream might show that for some reason, you maybe went backwards instead of forward in your attempts to be determined about something and therefore, you were shown as being only around 15 years old.
In the dreams, you don’t feel you have much time together, showing that your ability to be determined or assertive etc. kind of “comes and goes” when it wants to.
The strong feelings of “being in love” with the guy when you wake up could be a mixture of the dreams trying to get across how important and pleasant it can be to “get involved with” your own masculine side along with hinting that the kind of inner man you have will automatically be projected and seen on an outer guy, causing you to fall in love.
Again, although it isn’t very romantic, the more a girl can stick with her true feelings and at the same time be reasonably assertive, clear thinking and determined in various parts of her life etc., the better chance she’ll have of matching up with a guy who, along with his masculine side, has developed his “feminine” side so that he’s receptive and considerate to a good enough level to make a long-lasting match.
Anyway as mentioned, without knowing anything much about you, this way of looking at these particular types of dreams might not fit your personal circumstances very well, but I hope these ideas can be helpful in some way.
Please feel free to ask any questions or to make any comments about this particular way of looking at your dream.
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