Thread: Best friend's girlfriend seducing me

Hi korothism,

I would guess that you probably have some feeling towards her that you hide in the waking life to not hurt your friend. It's pretty normal.

But please take my thoughts as newbie's considerations.

eXistenZ

Originally posted by korothism
I yesterday had a dream ( not lucid ) in which my best friend's girlfriend was \"trying\" to seduce me by placing her leg over my leg. We were both sitting on the same bench. But in my real life I never had any such feeling towards her.

Does this dream have any special meaning ?

The Dream is warning you that your best friend's girlfriend is a slut and could quite possibly ruin your relationship with your best friend by, yes, seducing you. Understand that some women love drama more than anything else, and will stir up trouble for the sake of the simple excitement that goes with the fights, the arguments, and the torturing anxieties that go with the destruction of once firm Relationships.

So, keep your distance from that girl. Never sit next to her, and never let the door close on the same room with only her and you inside. Let her break your best friend's heart with some other friend of his.

Originally posted by Leo Volont


The Dream is warning you that your best friend's girlfriend is a slut and could quite possibly ruin your relationship with your best friend by, yes, seducing you. Understand that some women love drama more than anything else, and will stir up trouble for the sake of the simple excitement that goes with the fights, the arguments, and the torturing anxieties that go with the destruction of once firm Relationships.

So, keep your distance from that girl. Never sit next to her, and never let the door close on the same room with only her and you inside. Let her break your best friend's heart with some other friend of his.

If you would distance yourself from the girlfriend of your best friend, you would ruin the relation with your best friend anyway...
Don't distance herself just for one dream; it would be unfair towards her and towards your friend. As far as we know, she might be a wonderful soul and not a "s..t"...
I think that dreams do not dictate so detailed decisions, but they inspire a lifestyle.

A big peaceful hug to everyone
eXistenZ

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If you would distance yourself from the girlfriend of your best friend, you would ruin the relation with your best friend anyway...
Don't distance herself just for one dream; it would be unfair towards her and towards your friend. As far as we know, she might be a wonderful soul and not a "s..t"...
I think that dreams do not dictate so detailed decisions, but they inspire a lifestyle.

A big peaceful hug to everyone
eXistenZ

I only advocate what has always been considered discreet. One could simply pretend to be shy with girls. Nobody would even have to notice that anything is in the least amiss. For after all, what have I suggested, but that he never sit next to her, nor be alone with her. What could be suspicious about that? You know, most best friends would appreciate it that their friends are not continuously all over their girlfriends.

More friendships break up because friends are not careful with their friends girlfriends then because they are not.

Besides, I once applied such rules to myself on a large scale. I was something of a Religious Leader in the Community and suspected that my career would go smoother if I avoided any hint or suspicioun of Scandal. So I never talked to a wife alone, but only when her husband was at least in the same room and witness to the utmost propriety of behavior. If the husband ever had to step out, I would step out with him, or find a new member of the party to chat with. and in the years of abiding by such a plan, there had never been a single awkward moment. I think everyone appreciated my discretion.

Originally posted by Leo Volont
The Dream is warning you that your best friend's girlfriend is a slut and could quite possibly ruin your relationship with your best friend by, yes, seducing you. Understand that some women love drama more than anything else, and will stir up trouble for the sake of the simple excitement that goes with the fights, the arguments, and the torturing anxieties that go with the destruction of once firm Relationships.

So, keep your distance from that girl. Never sit next to her, and never let the door close on the same room with only her and you inside. Let her break your best friend's heart with some other friend of his.

Leo.............

that's the words of a guy who's been seriously hurt in the past
and now considers all women to be evil & conniving
they're not

Originally posted by Ynot


Leo.............

that's the words of a guy who's been seriously hurt in the past
and now considers all women to be evil & conniving
they're not

Well, he asked what the dream meant, and if one looks at it entirely in a straigtforward literal fashion...

The First Rule in exercising the Faculty of True Discernment is not to blink away from the Truth.

Originally posted by Leo Volont


Understand that some women love drama more than anything else, and will stir up trouble for the sake of the simple excitement that goes with the fights, the arguments, and the torturing anxieties that go with the destruction of once firm Relationships.

I agree with you. Every one please note that he used the word "some women".

I am thankful for the replies.

Let me see what happens in near future.

Hi Leo,

I understand your point . The problem was that the way you phrased your suggestion clearly implied that she was just a "s..t" to avoid. I found this judgement quite harsh.

Naturally you're free to feel that the Truth requires unpolite words to be communicated.

eXistenZ

Originally posted by korothism


I agree with you. Every one please note that he used the word \"some women\".

I am thankful for the replies.

Let me see what happens in near future.

Hi korothism,
You'll have a career as a diplomatic peacemaker: you can dismantle a flaming battle at its inception

Peace to everyone,
eXistenZ

This dream is not indicative of her character. I think it either means he has attraction to her or the relationship between them as a hint of sexuality or is potentially sexual. It would lead to disaster though.