Sex Dream With A Friend

**Spinseeker** · 04-20-2007 09:19 PM

Okay, here's a little background information so you wonderful people have an easier time interpreting my dream. Names changed for confidentiality.

I'm a 17 year old guy. My girlfriend's been putting on weight, and I continue to try (unsuccessfully) to convince her to exercise. She really wants to lose weight, though, and sometimes she'll skip entire meals. There was this one time where she only ate breakfast, and that was it.

I have a friend I've known since grade 3, and she's a bombshell. I used to like her a lot a year ago, and we dated for a while, but the relationship never worked out. Now we're just friends, and since she no longer lives in the same area as me, we only get to hang out a few times a month. I'll call my friend Rika. Anyway, I woke up in the middle of the night to take a leak. I was flushing the john when I suddenly remembered I had this dream where I had sex with Rika. That was really strange for me, since I only have dreams about sex when I haven't had sex/masturbated for quite a while. I didn't cream my boxers, either, so technically it isn't a wet dream. I tried going bac to sleep, but I couldn't stop thinking about the dream and what it could mean, so after about thirty minutes I got up, went to my laptop, and typed what I could remember on MS word. I distinctly remember that a lot of things happened before and after I had sex in my dream, but I can hardy remember anything. Anyway, here's how it goes.

In my dream, I was staying in a villa with at least three floors, winding staircases, and men with guns. Half were black, and half were chinese. A lot happened before I had sex, but I can't remember what happened.

I was walking along a pier when I saw Rika dressed in a black thong and a tight fitting grey shirt behind some boxes right next to the water. She showed her ass to me, and took off her shirt while staring at me seductively, which reminded me of our dating days. I heard running water in the background. I went over to her and started kissing her and fondling her breasts. She seemed unusually responsive to me touching her breasts, and she was moaning in enjoyment. She took me by the hand and led me to a pile of gravel and lay down on it. I thought it would be hard, being gravel, but it was surprisingly soft. I found myself unusually obsessed with her breasts, and paid much more attention to it than I normally would have in real life. This went on for a few minutes, then I ripped her thong off and went down on her. In sharp contrast, she claimed she wasn’t feeling anything and complained that I sucked at oral sex. I never remembered taking off my clothing, so I must have been naked already when I saw her. I started fucking her from behind, and she liked that. I was about to cum, but I didn't have a condom and I really wanted to cum inside her. I've always wanted to try anal sex, but I have never tried it. I felt that this was a good opportunity. I pulled out and stuck my dick in her ass, and was about to cum in her ass when a group of black men with automatic firearms from the villa came and just stared. We were suddenly self conscious. Suddenly my favorite white trucker hat was on my head. I lent my white hat to Rika so she could cover her breasts with it and we got in a car and drove back to the villa. I don’t remember what happened after that, but I'm pretty sure she never came up in my dream again. I had no idea it was a dream at the time.

If you guys could help me interpret this, I'd really appreciate it. I have a feeling that my frustration at my girlfriend partially caused this dream, but otherwise I'm pretty clueless. I hardly remember my dreams when I wake up, and I never really paid much attention to them until now.

**unclesirbob** · 04-24-2007 04:48 PM

Well sex dreams usually split into two categories. There are dreams were you wake up sexually aroused. If thats the case then thats the simple meaning. If you feel strong sexual or other feelings when you wake up they will link to those immediate needs.

If you were not sexually aroused then the dream means something abstract. It may link to lots of things. Sex often can link to any aspect of sexuality. It may link to a moment of emotional closeness but probably not in this case as the sex is quite graphic and male in its attitude.

Black men tend to have a very dominant attitude to sex and towards women in general. Maybe thats the connection as the dream shows you behaving in a dominant and aggressive male way similar to that of a black man. Maybe its saying that you are forcing your girlfriend into some role that she doesn't want to be.

But of course dreams are notoriously difficult to interpret. If something big happens the day before you always know that the dream will be about that. But in this case thats not true. It could relate to lots of things. It may link to your gf and some thoughts that you have had about that. But the language of dreams may keep its answer to itself.
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Dreams are fascinating but maybe its best not to delve too deeply into their meanings and seek advice. Try not to rely on them as dreams are notoriously difficult to interpret. Yet they do tend to concentrate on recent events and new feelings. You should be able to spot the formation of your own conceptual emotions(with some practice).Deeply hidden inside a dream is some conception perhaps to the previous day. Some slight change in your own thoughts (so concentrate on those changes and see if they maybe featured in the dream).

The main fascination of dreams is how they link to the storage and formation of conceptual feelings. Conceptual feelings must be stored in the brain and perhaps the dreams that we have show how we store such ideas. Instead of using the word STRUGGLE the dream mind instead uses a situation involving a struggle. Instead of using the phrase "closer and closer" the dream mind instead uses the symbol of golf where the object is to get closer and closer to some eventual aim (to pot the ball).

Instead of trying to interpret your dreams just go to your own conceptual feelings and then see what recent thoughts could feature in your reams. Say some argument or situation from the day before. Maybe your dream could link to some task or issue about to be faced on the actual day of the dream?

These pages are especially helpful in showing you how to interpret dreams

http://www.geocities.com/hairybobby2000/dr...yhowtopost.html Interpreting dreams
http://www.geocities.com/hairybobby2...ssayhowto.html Triggers for dreams
http://www.geocities.com/hairybobby2000/dreamessay.html Dream dictionary

**MoD** · 04-24-2007 06:42 PM

You just had sex with a old friend. So? Stop thinking about it. Dreams are random and meaningless. And interpretations vary from person to person!

**Nyx** · 04-24-2007 11:16 PM

The Chinese have small dicks.

**wasup** · 04-25-2007 03:21 AM

Originally Posted by MoD

You just had sex with a old friend. So? Stop thinking about it. Dreams are random and meaningless. And interpretations vary from person to person![/b]

And this bit of information comes from your extensive knowledge of psychology, right?

**Elwood** · 04-25-2007 03:35 AM

Originally Posted by Nyx

The Chinese have small dicks.[/b]

ROFL

Your just hornay! lol. Ive found out that the people that you dream about are 99% of the time people you care about. Theres this girl that went to my school a while ago and i really liked her but i never asked her out. Well turns out she moved to texas (i live in california&#33

:'( . so i never asked her out. And now i thinkabout her every day. I also dream about her 5/7 days a week

**MoD** · 04-25-2007 07:47 PM

Originally Posted by ataraxis

And this bit of information comes from your extensive knowledge of psychology, right?[/b]

Stop being naive. There are a dozen of theories that involve explanation of dreams. Guess what? None of them are any less or more proven. So, it depends on what you personally believe! Choose for yourself!

And, YES it does come from my VAST knowledge of psychology! Jealous?

**King and God** · 04-25-2007 10:10 PM

It doesn't sound like it has much of a meaning to me. I would say you were simply horny.

Sexy dream, by the way.

**wasup** · 04-25-2007 10:25 PM

Originally Posted by MoD

Stop being naive. There are a dozen of theories that involve explanation of dreams. Guess what? None of them are any less or more proven. So, it depends on what you personally believe! Choose for yourself!

And, YES it does come from my VAST knowledge of psychology! Jealous?

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First of all, you said it quite matter of factly. Secondly, you horribly contradicted yourself. "DREAMS ARE MEANINGLESS. AND FURTHERMORE, THE MEANINGS OF DREAMS DIFFER FROM PERSON TO PERSON."

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