My dreams of the last several days have taken a different turn. They seem to move from dreamview to dreamview, scene to scene rather quickly and in a way inncoherently. I seldom remember more than bits and pieces, nothing enough to really comment on. Some of the dream fragments seem like dreams, others seem like memories, all mixed together moving speedily by.
Another strange twist is that when I start to daydream lately , as in take hold of a thought to contemplate on or consider I seem to slip into a dreamstate just like when I sleep. These experiences too do not last long and the memory of them doesnt last much beyond the dream. Gone by the time I get the pen and paper.
Last night was the first in a few days that I remember anything at all in particular.
Scenes of a building, one building but as the dreamview shifts, carrying different purposeful connotations. A school, a home, a carwash, a auto shop, all move by quickly. Same building , different people around in each view, slightly different settings and scenery around it.
Then a view with me in a articulated loader tractor from my workplace trying to get it washed. Thoughts of it too big to fit inside the wash building. Subtle thoughts of it getting wshed without the building. Suddenly the wash mecanisms are out in mid air by themselves unsupported and enlarged. Tractor gets washed just like your car would at an automated wash. No walls, no supports for the now unattached machine parts of the washer. How neat, how strange. View goes by so quickly.
Memories passing by rapidly. No order, chaotic, too fast to recognize. I awake and remember little but what has just been told.
Later this morning at work I have a waking dream experience as I disussed above. I was thinking of the dream I just explained and I momentarily went off as if asleep in that moment. It was as if time for my view stopped and I was watching memories in time race by. No order, all random bits and pieces, moments in no particular order.
One memory stands out of the line. My father relating and lamenting of how his mother had shouldered him with the responsibility of watching after his brothers and sister, to keep them safe from his physically abusive father( who died 6 months before I was born). Telling of watching his brother get beat up by him and being torn because of his shouldered responsibility to keep them safe, even as he himself got beat.
The memory goes as quick as it came. Replaced almost immediately by another vivid memory standing out. This one of a conversation I had with my grandmother, my fathers mother, a conversation which took place years ago, before she died, in her home by ourselves. She was telling me of how she placed this mantle of responsibility on my dad when he was only in grade school. She told me of how this was one of the few things she regretted doing in life, and wished she had not ever said what she said to him that day, placing that burden on him.
Again memory left as quick as it came, back at work in the tractor as if no time had passed, but the experience was now there as if from a dream.
I told my father later today of these things that my grandmother had said years ago. He didnt say much, but I think it made an impact.
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