* a little note
I am a recovering alcoholic and many of my dreams still involve alcohol it seems to be lessining with time however.
3:00pm-5:30pm 1/5/09
I lay down with daughter this afternoon duning her nap to attempt working on a task:
I dream that I am at my pastor's house but it has changed and is huge. there is a theater there and people are trying to watch a movie but my kids are playing with this stupid ABC Snail toy that plays the alphabet song and they keep playing it over and over again so I go and find the toy and turn it off. Then I hear the song again and relies that they have another identical toy when I find it I turn it off and stash both on top of a refrigerator just outside of the theater. Then I hear it again and find yet another toy just the same, I do the same thing. The scene flashes to their living room and we are playing a video game they are playing in the living room but I am playing in the hallway and the character in the game which is an RPG game starts singing the ABC game. I get totally frustrated and try to remember how you change songs that they sing but I can't do it even with help. I keep waking up for short periods and finally I give up and totally allow myself to wake up completely. My daughter has crawled out of bed and is sitting on the floor with her ABC Snail pressing the dang button over and over again! I relies that I was hearing that the entire time! I am a little disappointed that I never went Lucid at all and had plenty of chances of doing my task if I had....grrr oh well maybe next time.
12am-? 1/5/09
I am driving with my father up to the top of a mountain and there are other people there when we get where we are going. It is like a campus of some sort will lots of college age kids hanging out doing various activities. It is night and the street lamps are on. I have a couple of 40's hidden in my bag.
My father won't leave me alone long enough to have a drink and I think to myself that it wouldn't be a good idea to have a buzz around him so I don't drink when he isn't looking. Then it is time to leave, I am going to be driving my own automobile home fallowing him. I think that it wouldn't be smart to drink and drive -what if I got pulled over? Surely I would go back to jail. I feel irritated by the inconvenience the alcohol is becoming and I don't want him to know about it. I throw it away - it's not worth it.
I flash into some sort of Bible camp place with my my pastors wife. Again, I have alcohol stashed on me and I want a drink. I am in charge of watching over some expensive or important artwork. The others in our Bible group are ALWAYS around, I don't feel it is safe to have a drink I am afraid I will get drunk and become an idiot and will be found out. Finally I just get fed up with it and throw it away.
8:00am -? 1/5/09
I am at my parents house from when I was a teenager, I have my own room and it is clean and everything is very nice and of high value. I'm 28 still, but I am staying there. I know this isn't really my old room but I am just so happy to be living under their roof again with the expectations of a teenager that I don't challenge it, I don't want it to change to something else. I enjoy how tidy everything is but I expect it after all my parents live like they are in a museum. I am exited thinking about what I am going to do when I sneak out later I am definitely going to go and drink and this time there won't be any repercussions as long as I am sober in the morning. I am exited - Scott won't know and I won't get into trouble and he won't leave me.
I notice a lot of my old things stored away in my very large walk in closet (I never had in real life) I feel giddy nostalgia I like looking at all of the stuff I used to have. I like all of my nice clothes and nice things.
My mother walks in and informs me that I need to start packing if I am going to Alaska tomorrow- this freaks me out! I begin telling her-"Alaska, oh no not again I am definitely not going to Alaska where I will be trapped an indefinite amount of time. I will be too far away from Scott. I will never be able to afford an Airplane ticket when I want to come home." My mother looks like she is going to get mad and I think she is mad about losing money on a canceled airplane ticket- but then she relents and says okay "what are you going to do then?" I know at this point that I'm not going to go out drinking because I won't have enough time. It somehow doesn't really matter to me though. I wonder then where is Scott and why isn't he here and why would I be living here with them if I am with my Scott and the children. I ask "where Scott is", she tells me to call him.
I go to the Kitchen to use the phone, the door to the garage is open and I see another girl out there she is a teenager. I don't know who she is. I try to call Scott at his work the call rings through but there is interference and I can't talk to him only hear him a little bit. I am frustrated- this always happens either I can't dial the right number or I can't get through! The girl in the garage is talking to her boyfriend about going out to a party that night using my dad's cell phone. I ask if I can use it I just get a dirty look and told that I can use the other phone. I am pissed, I am the only child here I think to myself what kind of B***S*** is this!? I relies that I am having a two year old hissy fit but for some reason I just don't care. It try the phone again but I keep having the same problem. I am relieved by the fact that I know where Scott is and now I just need to figure out a way to get to him. I begin walking away from my house and my mother wants to know where I am going. I say in a teen-angst tone that if I have to walk there myself I am going to Hayden (17 miles away) to Scott's work to talk to him. Somehow I get there to Hayden and the people at Scott's work tell me that he doesn't want to see me. I can't figure this out I don't have the feeling that I drank and he left me but I can't help but wonder if I did. I barge in anyway because I feel like I am about to panic. I get inside it's not a work place at all it is his home and my two baby girls are there and I hug them and kiss them then I walk up to Scott. I ask him why he won't see me and he isn't mad he hugs me and kisses me and then I wake up.
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