Originally Posted by Moonbeam
Why not?
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because an innocent baby shouldnt have to die because she couldnt keep her legs closed. really, its not the end of the world if a teenager gives birth to a child. my cousin did, and all though she went through a depression cycle thinking it was the end of the world - her child ended up being a little angel *really she just walks around saying how much she loves everyone, it weirds out her own mother* she loves being a mom now, and is having her third child.
I am neither pro-choice or pro-life - there are political problems to both. My stance on the situation is not political, so I can not vote on it. And since most of us will never be put in a situation where we must choose between our death or the death of our child, we can't judge and its best to allow a choice in these scenarios.
but, I think the real problems in abortion is that it shows a gross mentality of modern human beings. Its society that needs to change before the issue of abortion is finally over. The first problem is among females who have a gross view of the female body. They are actually upset that men dont 'suffer' pregnancy, and pregnancy has become this 'shame'. This 'curse' of being female. So when a teeanger gets pregnant she feels 'shame', 'cursed'.
There is no respect for the female body, or that it carries the next generation - only this gross mentality that somehow being born male or female is against our free will so we must result to manmade processes to correct this.
I may be christian but damn, do we need to bring back the Goddess devotion in society or what? There is nothing shameful about the female body and no female should feel ashamed if she becomes pregnant. Period. Her body is sacred and so is her most natural role.
The other problem I see is our view of sex. We have somehow lied to ourselves saying we can have all the sex we want and never worry about pregnancy. Unless youre gay, youre an idiot for believing so. Sex = babies. Its how all of us are born. If you dont want children, the safest way to avoid pregnancy all together is not have sex - which every teenager should do if they feel their whole world would fall apart if it happened. For adults we have condoms and other things - but abortion is not one of them, it does not prevent pregnancy. Birth controls prevent the process of pregnancy from happening. The CHOICE to having a child or not is not really made with abortion - that choice has already been decided with all of the actions leading up to the pregnancy.
Our view of sex, that it is seperate from pregnancy, and how females view their own body shows a problem that is very deep in our society. A problem that humans want to take control of nature, and decide the nature of things, and what nature does and doesnt do. This problem isn't about choice, just our own problem with embracing what is natural.
We also need to continue having support for teen pregnancy. All children are equal, regardless of their parents, and should have the same chances at life that we all have. We also have a problem with orphanages. And how difficult it is to adopt.
The other problem I see, is well, lack of compassion and this false notion of what happiness is. Where do pro-choicers start arguing that if a child is less than perfect its probably better if it was never born??? Again, I can't stress enough I am not talking about the choice to have this child or not, but simply the mentality that it is better that it is never born. Where do you come off with this mentality? I hear this a lot from people who have had suicidal thoughts. Youre still here arent you? You haven't committed suicide yet have you? Second, I dont remember hearing any reports about mass suicides from orphans or less than perfect people. Suicides always seem to come from middle class americans, theyre not even coming from the pooor!
There are plenty less than perfect people happy to be alive, and there are plenty who are miserable. The same can be said for people born with perfect health. If you can count to four then hopefully you can see our genes don't decide the outcome of our life.
I hope you understand, I am not arguing for or against either pro-life or pro-choice - just the mentalities behind it. Why? Becuase even if pro-lifers win the legal battle, since these gross mentalities still exist abortion would continue in illegal practices - taking even more lives and damaging society even more. And if pro-choicers win the legal battle - im sorry sweet heart - but that will just open pandora's box for more worthless men to run out on us ladies unless we abort, holding it against us even if we want the child. Cowards. I hope they ass-raped down the line.
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