utilitarianism.

In many cases I find myself in the minority or even more often somewhere in between.
Many subjective and objective topics and discussions turn to the principle belief system behind the entire concept. Atheism, totalitarianism, Christianity socialist and more. (*although I still claim no label) - I feel it is dangerous.

This perplexed me. After doing a little research to better define what my stance is on so many of these topics one almost has to define or classify yourself as "something." People will not accept your arguments. Or even worse, they just categorize you as they see put. To try and prevent that from happening I was on a mission to best suite my morality, for lack of a more descriptive term.
This lands me to utilitarianism.

Is any one familiar with this?