Thread: Is there anyone else with my "disease"

I'm 21 years old, I've been in "love" once. Since her I've not cared about any girl at all what so ever in a "love" way, no where close.

So, I suffer from your disease now. :]

Love is disease that should be gotten rid of.

Originally Posted by nitsuJ

I'm 21 years old, I've been in "love" once. Since her I've not cared about any girl at all what so ever in a "love" way, no where close.

So, I suffer from your disease now. :]

Love is disease that should be gotten rid of.

No.
Whys everyone sound so morbid, relax and stop searching so desperatly and things will end up all right.. Or expect failure, and why else do you expect?

Be careful to not too get wrapped up in a Hollywood version of what love "should be". Love is different for everyone.
I've been in several serious relationships and married twice. Yet I've never been what most people would call "in love". I can live without another person by my side. I don't need someone to validate or rescue me and I don't feel overly compelled to do such for someone else either.
For me, love is finding a dear friend you could happily spend forever with. It's wanting to be around them, the first person you want to talk to when you're happy or sad, it's wanting to learn all about them and sharing secrets with them. And most of all, it's loyalty.

You're young. Don't feel bad, don't rush things because you or others think you "should". Take your time and enjoy life and enjoy looking for your special someone.

I really did fall in love. I've also experienced this "fake love". She didn't feel the same, though. Of course, it was clear to me that any relationship between us would fail epically, so I decided it was best we be friends....but eventually our friendship was ripped apart due to her refusal to tell the truth. I still think of the girl who was subject to my desire every day. She was the best friend I had in a long time. I probably would have forgotten sooner, but I have not anyone to replace her. It's weird, she was so nice, but she was an extremely subtle attention whore. Guess I got lured into her trap. But still, I wish we were still friends.

I envy psychopaths, who are incapable of feelings such as fear or love. They do not carry typical human burdens.

Hmm... I must be diseased as well, I'm older than you are and I've never been "in love". I've only ever said it in a caring sort of way, not romantic. I believe that most people in their early 20s (sometimes younger/older) who say they're in love, really aren't, it's just infatuation, which is bound to twist them brain cells of yours and convince you that what you're feeling is real. I mean, it IS real, it's your own feeling, BUT it might not be what you think it is.

I think all of us "diseased" peoples should come together and love each other! Hmm, in like, a non-sexual sort of way.