Thread: Worst thing a girl can so is "No", right? Think again...

Ok, so I'm doing a report on suicides and I've come across some very sad stories. The MySpace mom incident, some usual school bullying...

But you know how people tell you when you want to ask a girl out, and they say the worse thing they can do is say "No"?

Well, this is the story about Ryan Halligan. A student that was bullied in High School. Now, I just want to say that this certain passage didn't drive him to die by suicide.

During the summer, my son approached a pretty “popular” girl from his school on-line and worked on establishing a relationship with her; I’m sure as a surefire way to squash the “gay” rumor before everyone returned to school in the fall. When the 8 th grade school year started up again, Ryan approached his new girlfriend in person. I’m sure he was never prepared to handle what happened next. In front of her friends she told him he was just a loser and that she did not want anything to do with him. She said she was only joking on-line. He found out that her friends and her thought it would be funny to make him think she liked him and to get him to say a lot of personal, embarrassing stuff. She copied and pasted there private IM exchanges into ones with her friends. They all had a good laugh at Ryan’s expense.

You can read the full story here.

There are some really stupid people in this world.

All I really want to say is, if you see someone who looks depressed or down, just say "Hi" to them. It'll make their day much much better.

Trust me.

Also, this thread isn't meant to put those down who want to ask a girl out. I'm just saying that some people should really think about what they're doing.

damn.... that was fucked up lol

All I really want to say is, if you see someone who looks depressed or down, just say "Hi" to them. It'll make their day much much better.

Also, this thread isn't meant to put those down who want to ask a girl out. I'm just saying that some people should really think about what they're doing.

Are you saying not to ask girls out? I've been rejected before, I just shrugged it off and kept it moving...she doesn't know what she is missing...like a big fat meatstick in her...oh well.....there's plenty more girls in the world..seriously. To not try and ask girls out anymore because you were rejected is foolish.

Originally Posted by HaRd_WiReD

Are you saying not to ask girls out? I've been rejected before, I just shrugged it off and kept it moving...she doesn't know what she is missing...like a big fat meatstick in her...oh well.....there's plenty more girls in the world..seriously. To not try and ask girls out anymore because you were rejected is foolish.

No no no. Go ahead and ask girls out.

Sorry, must have said it wrong

Not sure how to explain it ._.

There was also another really bad case where someone overdosed infront of a live audience on webcam on some webcam site. After the people he was talking to found out that he overdosed it was 12 hours until cops found him. He had bi-polar disorder or something, but the people shouldn't have pressured him into doing that.

A very sad and tragic story. As the site mentions, very few people would have had the resilience to deal with such a thing as such a difficult point in one's life.

People picked on me and physically bullied me in middle school...briefly. I ended up in the office twice for injuring students who picked on me back in sixth grade. They told me they would call the police the next time I hit someone (because the second time, they lost their front tooth), but by then my point was made. Nobody ever touched me or even said anything bad about me ever again. And I got respect.

I'm not nessecarily suggesting that violence is the answer but...okay, let's not bullshit, it is. If someone TOUCHES me, they receive a serious injury. All there is to it.

lol mini, I was the same way in high school. After I got my first win, no one fucked with me ever again..and I seriously was the man in there.. girls liked me, and the fellas wanted to hang with me.

Originally Posted by slayer

All I really want to say is, if you see someone who looks depressed or down, just say "Hi" to them. It'll make their day much much better.

This reminds me of Dane Cook talking about how he talks to the "weird" guy at the office. Then when the guy goes on a shooting spree, he doesn't shoot you. I can't find the video of it on Youtube at the moment, I'll link it later.

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