I keep having non-lucid dreams for the past few nights about trying to control my dreams, without knowing i'm dreaming.

Last night I had a dream I was trying to summon a pen, and I reached in my pocket, and it wasn't there. I tried a few more times but it didn't work.

Two nights ago I was trying to jump all the way up to the roof, and kept falling over when I tried to jump.

These are all non-lucid, and I have had 1 lucid dream where i did both of those successfully.

Thoughts?