I feel like im hated by everyone

**benzilla04** · 08-09-2012 12:10 PM

Hey guys

I know im not the only one but i feel like everyone hates me, alone and unloved. not even my parents show love towards me. When i left college i was stripped off friends because they live far away. my parents always talk to me as if ive done something wrong. they are always telling me how bad i am at everything and hardly giving me support. I just feel so alone and useless. Theres no one i can really talk about it to.. cant talk to my parents because they will just tell me that im being stupid and that doesnt really help, im not asking for everyone to give me attention, i would just like to know what you would do/have done if you were in my sort of situation

thanks

**benzilla04** · 08-09-2012 12:33 PM

Someone move this to General Discussion, I thought I put that there

**Moznic** · 08-09-2012 01:36 PM

I may not be the best person to give advice, but even so I would like to give my thoughts on what I would do. If I were in your situation I would say that those are merely peoples that are trying to play it safe. Everything you do has its own reason and you're your own driver. No one can say that you're stupid for driving to the left, but rather you're the one that choose which path you want to drive on.

It's the same thing with life. You get those that are trying to call you everything or doesn't even want to give you attention, but deep down they're afraid of someone doing something different from what they did. So in return they're trying to make you into the same type of person that they're.

But what you do is your own decision and every decision that you do creates a change to the world. So what I would do is ignore the negative voices and move on with what I want to do. No one can describe if you're stupid,idiot or anything, but you're the one that can describe what type of human you're. And in return I would do what I love doing then that's where they see that you made a change to the world. That's how I am currently living.

**imfivebyfive** · 08-15-2012 04:08 PM

I agree with Moznic. Every second is another chance to start fresh. Don't focus on the past or the present, imagine how you want your life to be and start working towards it right now. Stay away from negative people, they will wear you down. Take care.

**Neversoft** · 08-23-2012 06:37 PM

Men aren't entitled to being loved, they are entitled to giving love. I would toughen up if I were you. Do you know what a war is? Did you know that sometimes certain people or species want to take away from you the right to live in the fashion that you want to? I don't like being surrounded by a bunch of pansies, especially of the male gender. One day humanity is going to find itself at the brink of annihilation and I want people next to me who know how to grit their teeth and show their worth. I know I'm not making much sense here, but one day you will understand.