But in these dreams, it's everyone missing ME and not the other way around. In my dreams I was actually very aloof about it. When his grandmother asked what happened I merely shrugged and said he didn't want me. And when his other family members were saying I should come catch up, I never gave a response.

Also, in my waking real life I don't have a desire for a long term relationship or family. Just the other day I was sitting and thinking about how much of a commitment phobe I am right now because I would hate to be trapped in a marriage/relationship for the rest of my life. I've been having way too much fun single!

ahhhh stupid dreams lol.