I'm really confused why this is happening now.

Basically, my boyfriend broke up with me 10 months ago. I've gone through the grieving, and happy to say I'm over him. When we were together, I never dreamed of him. When we broke up, I never dreamed of him.

This past week I've been having very vivid dreams. Not only of him, but of his family members. I'll try to keep this as concise as possible.

Night 1: The first dream was of my ex's grandmother. I had gotten close to her over a period of three years. In the dream she was sitting in a room, and she asked me what had happened between her grandson and I-- as if she was never told the real story. All I said was, "He didn't want me." And she said comfortingly, "You're going to be OK. It's all about what you're learning."

And then I woke up. I had NEVER dreamed of her before. I got a kind of weird feeling. Like what if she was in ill health or has passed? She is elderly and not in good health.

Night 2: I was in my ex's house and invited for dinner. I saw his brother and was goofing off. All of a sudden the door opens and this girl walks in. Younger than me, about 23. She's wearing a blue dress. She's introduced as my ex's new girlfriend named "Nicole." The dream jumps to me sitting at the dinner table with my ex's family. His new girlfriend is sitting across from me, my ex is sitting next to me. Again, I see my ex's grandmother. She sees me, starts to cry and embraces me. It's apparent she's missed me being around the family. My ex's new girlfriend has tears coming from her eyes because she sees how much the family likes me, and how much they miss me and how close I am to them.

My ex stands up and makes a toast saying that he's going to marry his new girlfriend. Her name changes here and she's now "Zoe." They haven't been together long, about 3-4 months. There is some clapping, but his grandmother leans to someone and says, "He's just trying to scare us. It won't happen." I proceed to tell his girlfriend all about how he is a liar, he is a cheater, and in time she will see him for what he really is. Despite me calling him out to his new girlfriend, my ex doesn't hate me. He puts his arm around my shoulder and pulls me to him.

Night 3: My ex has been admitted to the hospital for alcohol poisoning. He's laying in bed, vomiting. His father makes his appearance, we start talking and he says I need to come by the house to catch up. My ex hears this and smiles slightly. His step-mother is sitting in the chair across from the bed and she hands me a box of blue tissues. Telling me that I have to give them to him. I go over to my ex and he is crying with the blankets over his head. I tell him that he's in this position because he's an abuser (of alcohol) and he says that this was all his fault (us not being together). It feels like we're having a moment, I get up and his step-mother says, "just remember what it was like being with him." And I say, "I do remember. I don't miss this at all." I go back to my ex and he's crying and taking responsibility for us failing. I say, "just tell me. Did you even want me?"

And then my alarm woke me up.

A couple things I've noticed-- His grandmother has made two appearances. The color blue has been very prominent in two of the dreams. That is the only color which has stuck out both times. Blue dress, blue tissues. I looked up the color blue and it says it could mean your spirit guides are communicating with you. Is this correct?

His entire family has made appearances and this is strange because I've NEVER... emphasis on the NEVER have had a dream about any of them. I've never had such vivid dreams about my ex either. We dated for three years, I've known him for about 4. I'm over the relationship. I don't have any contact or communication with him, or his family. He is blocked on e-mail/Facebook, and I don't communicate with mutual friends, I have no access to his life, pictures, information. NOTHING. The dreams do not upset me or hit me on an emotional level either.

WHAT is going on???