I have been back and forth weather or not I should post this.But I just finally said "What the heck!" so here it goes. This is something that has been going on for four years now and it has finally drove me crazy. I have been dreaming about this person for a long time now and I really want to know why. My mom tells me that me and this person (which I am just going to name him J ) have a connection. I am not so sure about that.I have a theory that its just my channeling abilities that is somehow picking up some information on him. I would love to have some advice or opinions on this matter

Trust me when I say that I have had a lot of dreams about this person within four years. So I have picked at least five dreams that I think are really important to me. I also had I organized this from Dream to Real life like I would in my dream journal. I am really sorry that its too long

First dream
In the dream I was walking on a street with my friends boyfriend. Me and my friends boyfriend decided to stop walking and wait for my friend to arrive. While we were waiting I was looking around the area when I suddenly saw J walking towards me. Once he was right in front of me he smiled then with his fingers he drew a smokey green Yin and Yang sign. I asked him what was it supposed to mean but all he did was smile at me and walked away and I continued on with the dream. In the dream I remembered that he was wearing a loose whit collared shirt and tux. I know he had something red on his left breast pocket but I can't remember what it was.

Real fact
For some reason this dream had left an impression on me and I had a very strong feeling to look him up on Facebook. I didn't know why but I just did. I had that feeling for at least two days and I couldn't shake it off. I ended up giving into that feeling and looked him up. When I saw his Facebook profile I shocked. He looked exactly how he looked in my dream from his features, to his height, he even had the exact same tux that he was wearing in my dream. The only difference was that in the picture he had a tie on and in my dream he didn't. I found it really weird that I would have a dream about J since I hadn't seen him in years. In the end I decided that it was just my psychic abilities being strange on me so I let it go. But a couple of days later I ended up having another dream about him and that was just the beginning. I had more dreams about him here and there for months and then months had turned into a year. All of the dreams were different but I did ended up getting real life information from those dreams. I have no idea why I kept dreaming about him and it was frustrating me.

Dream
I was walking around a softball park there were a lot of people around either playing softball or watching the game. I decide to sit on one of the benches so I can watch the game. When I looked at the players I see J in the field playing. I sat there for a little bit until I decided to leave. I walked around the area for a little bit until I saw a vet clinic. I walked into the vet clinic and I think I ended up meeting my spirit guide. I wont get into much of the conversation but I did ask her if me and J are meant to be together just to see what kind of response I would get. She told me yes we are and I didn't really know what to think of that. Later on when I was done talking to my spirit guide I went back to the softball field. The game was done and everybody including J had left the field. I didn't see him anywhere and I went back to the same bench area I was at earlier. There were a lot more people there painting and drawing so I joined them. A couple of minutes later J shows up and sits down right across from me. He looked upset and was really quiet until he started asking me all these questions like why did I leave, why didn't say goodbye, or why didn't keep in touch. I ended up getting really mad and yelled at him. Lets just say I had my reasons. But after I had yelled at him he told me the he wasn't my friend anymore. After that J had turned into a dragon and the dream changed.

Real fact
I have been to that softball park many times in my life but I really didn't
know if there was a actual vet clinic near the park. Two years later after work I decided to drive around softball park area to see if there was a vet clinic and I ended up finding it. It is a small little clinic that is pretty close to the soft ball park.

Dream
In this dream I was in a train with my best friend. There was a lot of stuff was going on and I can't quite remember most of it but when the train had stopped my best friend and I walked out into a empty parking lot. We were just hanging out until the train was ready to leave again. When it was ready to go and we were walking back to the train I got an idea. Why not see if I can get into his dreams. So I stopped walking, closed my eyes, relaxed, and concentrated on J. Suddenly I felted the similar feeling I always feel when he comes into my dreams. That same feeling led me to a door at the back of the train. Somehow I knew he would be at the other side of the door and when I opened it there he was. I walked up to him and found him sleeping on one of the long train chairs. I poked him on the rib cage to wake him up and scared him in the process too. I wont talk about the conversation but talking to him felt really grounded and comfortable. I did ended up asking him if he was psychic but his response was I don't know.

Real life
Later in the day I decided to call my best friend since I haven't spoken to her in a while. During our conversation she told me that she had went to a empty parking lot that mourning to practice her driving.

Dream
I was with my mom walking around a train station. When me and my mom stopped on the side of the train I had this very strong felling to the right of my side. I told my mom to wait there wile I walked towards the area the feeling was leading me to. Once I was in front of the train I looked around but I didn't see anything important but once I looked to the inside of the train J was there writing in a journal. He had saw me and all we did was stare at each other until I decided to run the other way. A couple of seconds later I met this girl who was really sweet to me. We talked for a wile until J showed up. He looked really upset with me and sat right next to us quiet. I did not take me long to realize that the girl I was talking to was his girlfriend. Once I had realized this I decided to leave and continue with the dream. Later on in the dream I saw J in an argument with his girlfriend and found out that they had broken up. I walked up to him and asked him if everything was ok but looked at me angrily and told me not to worry about it. But for some reason I felt bad so I had tried to help them work it out. Once I got them talking to each other I continued on with the rest of the dream which was really short.

Real life
It had been a week until I found out ( yes on Facebook) that he really did break up with his girlfriend. But here is my question. Why did I need to know this? I didn't need to know this I had nothing to do with that relationship.

Dream
I cannot remember most of this dream but J was in it. He had told me that he was going to Pearl University and asked me if I wanted to come with him. I told him that I couldn't and after that he left.

Real life
I have researched for Pearl University on Google. I found it but its a fashion design education institute in India. So I kept scrolling down and found the pearl project at Georgetown University for Investigative journalism. In some of the dreams J either has a journal with him or something with journalism is involved. My question is why?

So there you have it. Thank you for reading this