Problem Having Sex in Dream

**zoot** · 12-04-2010 09:39 PM

I am a moderately experienced lucid dreamer. I lucid dream I'd say about once a week on average (not even trying). When I TRY to lucid dream I can accomplish it about 95% of the time.

I have mastered flying, elevation, scene control and a bunch of other stuff but one thing I haven't figured out is HAVING SEX.

Every time I try to have sex with a women in my dream, the vagina is BLOCKED. I get the girl naked and in position just fine, but when I try to insert my penis the vagina is blocked and I can't get my penis in. This is VERY FRUSTRATING. Another thing to note is that I NEVER have problems getting ORAL SEX from women in my dreams, only vaginal sex. Once in awhile I get my penis in the vagina, but it's never in all the way and I have to keep forcing it through the blockage -- it never feels right.

I have had real sex countless number of times in my real life, so it's not a matter of the brain not knowing what it feels like.

Anyone else ever have this problem, how did you solve it?

**Absurdist** · 12-05-2010 01:39 AM

Go for the ass.

**zoot** · 12-05-2010 02:46 AM

but I'm not a gay guy, and I've never stuck my penis in an ass before.

**bimmerdreamer** · 12-05-2010 10:42 PM

^ You should. Feels good, man.

I've had a similar issue. I never seem to have a problem initiating sex during lucid dreams, but I always wake up in the middle of it. It feels so real, the kisses, the feeling, her fingernails on my back, it all feels too real and I wake up halfway through it. It is frustrating. I can count on one hand the number of times I've been able to finish in a dream.

**Rozollo** · 12-06-2010 12:15 AM

Originally Posted by zoot

but I'm not a gay guy, and I've never stuck my penis in an ass before.

How would anal sex with a woman make you gay?

It sounds like you are trying to engage with the dream character and putting up your own barriers. Instead of you forcing yourself on her or whatever, try to focus on having her initiate everything.

**lucidfhuture** · 12-06-2010 02:20 AM

Originally Posted by Absurdist

Go for the ass.

THIS^
no but really i recommend kind of doing it mindlessly until you get it in and then you can start to focus on the senses and have a good time

hope this helps and good luck!

**zoot** · 12-06-2010 02:46 AM

some good suggestions here, except for the sticking my penis in an ass, thanks!

**zebrah** · 12-06-2010 07:38 AM

Anal with a woman doesn't make you gay. And this blockage is something you need to overcome mentally.

**Omnilucid** · 12-12-2010 12:48 PM

This happened to me once also lol.
Wasnt lucid, just a sex dream.
I wanted to put my penis in but i couldn't for some reason, wouldnt let me.

**Tranquil Toad** · 12-13-2010 02:54 AM

I have no suggestions, however this thread made me laugh.

**MindGames** · 12-13-2010 03:06 AM

When I read the title of this thread, I assumed you needed some Dream Extenze.

Haha, well I would assume either a.) you're a virgin, or b.) you have some type of moral blockage against having sex with girls. Do you have any moral problem with sleeping with girls in real life? In that case you would need to change your subconscious attitudes about sex, which should be fairly easy assuming you really can control your lucid dreams as easily as you say you can.