No problem lulubelle,
And forgive me for not feeding you info, it's just that is something beyond what any person can tell you, it's always better if you take a neutral stance, do the research and make up your own mind, I dont like to force things on peeps =].

Anyway I do hope it is your dreamguide, because that is a brilliant thing.
Best wishes! And good luck for future encounters.
Nito.