How much practice did it take you to start having lucid sex?

**zilvis89** · 08-20-2011 09:00 PM

I'm just wondering , how long did it take you to start having lucid sex?If not sex , how long did it take to kiss without waking up?And how realistic is kissing in dreams?
Planning on doing some stuff , but not sure if it's the right time as i don't want to waste my precious lucid time if i would wake up within a second

**Matte87** · 08-20-2011 09:05 PM

Had sex loads of times, it's just that it ends quickly. Only managed to not wake up once after getting an orgasm though. It's realistic alright

**carwashguy** · 08-20-2011 10:37 PM

How much practice did it take you to start having lucid sex?

Starting is no problem at all. It's the finishing part that's tricky. You can't get too excited, for example, and it's easy to lose touch with the dream.

Quick note: virgins beware. Your mind can only use previous experiences as a foundation for what you will experience in a dream. If you've never had "real sex," chances are it's not going to feel like real sex.

**Fedd** · 08-21-2011 12:31 AM

try to get rid of the idea that you will wake up quickly, because either that will happen, or you will have false awakenings because you expect to wake up and then dream about that!

regarding the kissing, it feels realistic, and its good

i suggest you experiment around a little. maybe its not the best idea to rush to have sex.. a little more "softcore" stuff might be easier to handle without waking up etc..

for the remainder i agree with whats been said

**skuzzi** · 08-21-2011 12:42 AM

None, i did it in my first lucid dream

. I didn't wake up and i went on with my lucid dream.

**carwashguy** · 08-21-2011 01:03 AM

On kissing: you may want to be careful. Obscuring your vision can be dangerous.

**Erii** · 08-21-2011 04:56 AM

lulz just still try to be aware you are dreaming and it shouldn't fade too quickly......don't get completely carried away or it will fade pretty soon.

**Voidwalker** · 08-21-2011 05:53 PM

One time I tried to create a girl DC to do this with. Somehow I did but it malfunctioned a little and put a scab on her lip. When i kissed her I could feel it. XD grosssss .....So yeah, I would say kissing is very realistic, at least for me. Though I have only had sex to completion once, it was quick but orgasm was definitely there.

**Tranquil Toad** · 08-21-2011 09:33 PM

Lucid sex is O.K. The main problem once you stop waking up quickly is having reality distort. The other person will suddenly be very small like a doll, have the lower half of their body missing or some weird stuff like that. Orgasm can be very long and intense though.

Just become comfortable with LDing enough that you can spend a good amount of time in the dream state without waking up, then try to find a girl/guy. If you can only stay lucid for a few minutes, sex will just destabilize that even more.

**XeL** · 08-21-2011 09:57 PM

It's hard, but possible. I've had some amazing lucid sex dreams.

**korky** · 08-21-2011 10:28 PM

was lucky to have it in the first substanital LD. and as for re living past experiences i had never been down on a lady with a piercing before and my first LD sexual experience this was the case! it was right sexy actually, not something i would have expected.
summon partner, get freaky.