Hey guys, just wondering if I can get some help regarding Dream Guides? I tried finding mine a while back but I don't think I had much success. There were incidents where I would call out for him/her and then somebody would appear and say they were my Guide, but they didn't actually do anything beneficial, which brings to mind that none of them were actually my Dream Guide at all. I never saw any of them twice either; it was always a different person - one of which tricked me into thinking they were my Guide and then did everything they could to throw me off-track (and even did things which I feel were to try and wake me up).

I wasn't very experienced at lucid dreaming back then. Most LD's would typically be quite short and I wasn't very good at stabilising or doing things. However, I would consider myself a lot more advanced these days. In terms of inducing lucidity I'd say I'm sorted, but I still struggle with stabilisation a tad. In some dreams I manage to nail it on the head and I'm grounded like a boss, but in others the methods I usually use aren't as effective.

Anyway, down to business: I'm going to resume my search for my Guide again, and I have a few questions I'd like to ask those who are more advanced in this area.

-How many of you have the same Guide? Is it typically the same person or different?

-How do I know when I've found my Guide? I've been lied to in the past.

-I would prefer a woman, as I feel a lot more comfortable around them than I do men. Can I choose the gender of my Guide?

-What are they capable of?

-What does it feel like to be in the presence of a Dream Guide?

-I've heard a lot about them knowing more about myself than I do. Are they capable of helping me with real life issues?

A response tonight would be preferred, as I intend to get lucid tomorrow morning and make progress in this area. If I think of more questions I'll post them accordingly.