Create your own dream avatar based on your dream self. e.g are you more confident in your dreams but shy in real life change your avatar to look more confident. give it wings blue eyes etc. look up fantasy pics of what you would like to see. say the type of wings you would like the eyes are they slitted glowing. my idea is to find a mirror and try to change pieces of myself. I dont have much experience in changing my appearance more my clothes so any tips would be helpful from experienced dreamers. Don't forget to post your results.