(i hope this is the right section for this thread)


When I dream, I ,often if not almost always, dream in third person, and sometimes the dream includes me only marginally, like I am just the audience for what it's happening (see for instance the first entry of my dream journal).
This keeps me from lucid dreaming because when I dream, not being in first person or even not appearing in my dreams, I don't have the opportunity to reality check.
Is there any way I could possibly avoid this? I tried to repeat during the day the mantra "I am the lead of my dreams", but I don't know if it can help....
Suggestions?