So the past month I became lucid about 5 times. Each time on a different day, but in every lucid situation my stabilization failed, my 2 reality checks just completely did not work (plug your nose,push my fingers in my palms) and when i was trying to gain control of the dream I blurred out and exited the dream and woke up...

BTW I have already had some decent lucid dreams before and really have enjoyed them, so I know what i'm doing.