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      Sexuality in LD, Having sex as a girl experience

      I always felt bad in my own body. I won't be transsexualism, I'm writing that cause of that I recall in my memory time when I decided to have sex with a guy as a girl and feel how it looks like on the other side of barricade, but I couldn't. Scheme is a simple... 1.I turned myself to a woman. 2. I called guy. 3. Even if that was LD guy didn't want to have sex with me, he was escaping from me or he's cock didn't get hard OR I just wake up. I have to know! What's going on ? I've got to known!

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      lol, I don't know what to say....
      It's most likely that your MIND doesn't wants you to take ''cock''. Gosh lol

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      Thank you for support&comprehension. ._.

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      Even as a girl irl I still have those problems with male DCs, lol. Although, I think my problem is mostly just me needing more dream control practice. It's possible that most of your problem is that you're not entirely sure what to expect! You've never been a woman so you have to make that extra step of imagining what it might be like so you can make it happen.

      I've changed genders before but never had sex with a girl, I wonder if anyone else here can share their experience and how they succeeded.
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      To be honest I would say that :
      I always felt bad in my own body
      Is the reason. If you don't think you are desirable, then why would your subconscious?

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      Quote Originally Posted by Lucidit View Post
      lol, I don't know what to say....
      It's most likely that your MIND doesn't wants you to take ''cock''. Gosh lol
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      Magical ineffectiveness is a common dream feature, when you're trying something while in a certain mood. Don't read too much into it, unless it occurs the same way over and over and over.

      Also, interesting idea! I'm going to try that now, I've always wanted to what it felt like for a girl, and maybe it'll help me avoid waking up from boner awareness.

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      Quote Originally Posted by BrandonBoss View Post
      To be honest I would say that :


      Is the reason. If you don't think you are desirable, then why would your subconscious?
      I do not know what to think about this...

      Quote Originally Posted by Piggy View Post
      Even as a girl irl I still have those problems with male DCs, lol. Although, I think my problem is mostly just me needing more dream control practice. It's possible that most of your problem is that you're not entirely sure what to expect! You've never been a woman so you have to make that extra step of imagining what it might be like so you can make it happen.

      I've changed genders before but never had sex with a girl, I wonder if anyone else here can share their experience and how they succeeded.
      I just believe that mind won't let me experience with fake feelings.

      Quote Originally Posted by R4za View Post
      Magical ineffectiveness is a common dream feature, when you're trying something while in a certain mood. Don't read too much into it, unless it occurs the same way over and over and over.

      Also, interesting idea! I'm going to try that now, I've always wanted to what it felt like for a girl, and maybe it'll help me avoid waking up from boner awareness.
      I'm not a newbie :< I know how to deal with it... I didn't rage and didn't rampage and any bad feelings did not bother me. Unless that (don't know how to call that) pityfullness,feeling sorry... If that kind of feelings we can count as "bad" then yes I felt bad and not optimistic, but I'm feeling that after try, not meanwhile or before.

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      Try again, lucid sex goes wrong sometimes even when you don't throw gender swapping into the mix. You can read too much into failures and form mental blocks. Just go for it next time you're lucid.
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      In that case I'll keep trying and I'll write if someting go better. Keep your fingers crossed for me ;<
      Last edited by Missqu; 05-21-2013 at 07:19 PM.

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