Wanting it to open is not enough, even expecting the door to open isn't enough, just open the frikkin' door! If you think for a moment it might be closed, chances are it will be, so just don't think about it, just open the door. Same with monsters behind you, you simply shouldn't have those thoughts. You can surpress them by being goal-oriented. For example, if you say that next lucid dream, you're going to fly, then if you become lucid, you'll just walk outside and attempt to fly instead of standing around and thinking about all the things that you wouldn't want to happen. "It would suck if X happened." generally is a dangerous thought in a dream.
And, if your boyfriend realizes he is dreaming, then he is lucid. He just doesn't have any control over the dream. However, like almost all things in lucid dreaming, it is something that improves when practiced. So he just needs to put a little effort in it.
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