Originally posted by AirRick101
Well, if one was committed to their partner, they shouldn't have too much of a desire to fantasize. Otherwise, the relationship is lacking something? I don't like going one way or another on this type of thing, going either way seems to get me in trouble on trying to find a satisfactory opinion.

Materialistically, it doesn't \"hurt\" anybody, but in terms of ideals, how do you feel about it?
Well put. While dreaming, lucid dreaming, day dreaming etc about another person is technically not an act of infedility, it does make you wonder if something is lacking in the relationship in question.

Maybe it's as simple as, "Oh my husband is a doctor so I don't see him enough, so I'll just LD about some hot guy" and there's no grounds for divorce there. But if someone is seriously neglecting their partner, and the partner becomes desperate to find ways to overcompensate, which just happens to be in the form of sex dreams, then who's to say that will be enough?