Wow, quite the negative tangent there. *Hopes that all newbies arn't treated as such or that he's behaved himself*

Although, I'll try my best to answer you wer:

If you wish to actually meet her in your dreams, and I mean HER, not your self-illustrated version of her, but meet her in the "dream world"; it is highly un-likely to achieve this. It is most unlikely to achieve this because she may not even be a lucid dreamer, and, typically for a duel lucid dream, both participants would have to have something in common, or a type of correlation; regardless, she may not even be a lucid dreamer.

However, you can create her in your lucid dream with your own self-perpetuation to analyze and see what might happen in a situation talking to her. Of course, this would be hypothetical, and since you have a crush on her, all results may be manipulated by your emotions.

Regardless, to actually meet her, there are many things you could do. As I have read in other threads on here, a popular method is the, "They will be right around the corner." Try this. It's pretty simple.

Although, everyone lucidity differs, as well as what cues our lucidity. Thus, to manipulate your lucid dreams will oviously differ. This means that simply concentrating and "willing" her to come, could be easier than "she will be right around the corner." It all depends on the individual.

Simply, try each sense to conjur her. Such as:

- Her smell... which leads to her in some visual scenario (considering a visual is a definite pre-requisite, otherwise it's not much of a dream, you need to relate each of these catalytical senses to a visual)
^ Perfume, body odour, etc.
- Her feel... if you hugged her or held hands, etc. That feeling will be significant to you, especially considering your feelings towards her. This is possibly the best way to conjur anyone (considering touch is a precursor to a visual). This is why visualising shaking someones hand or fighting them is easy to conjur them into your lucid dream.

There are many, many other ways to summon her to your lucid dream. But it's up to you to find what cues any siginifcant markings within your dreams. Possibly tell us your "dream signs"?

Thank you for your time, and I hope I have been helpful,
~ Michael : O'nus