Sometimes you have to deserve things. Sometimes you need to be worthy.

Yes, it seems that a lot of low characters are able to do well with Lucid Dreaming, but for them Lucid Dreaming is nothing more than a sleeping video game, or sleeping masturbation. That is not what you want and so it is not what you are getting.

As you want a higher standard of Lucid Dreaming, so you will have to put that much more effort into it. But you can't simply boss around the Higher Dream Mind.

You can make all of the suggestions you want to the Higher Dream Mind, but then you need to monitor the dreams you do have and discern what guidance you do receive.

Your dreams are telling you why you are not having Lucid Dreams. You only need to pay attention to them, and then do what they are asking you to do.

You can't skip steps. There may be several levels to go, and each level requires you to pass through a particular Dream Motif -- a Test within your Dreams that require the correct choices, or the correct responses.

So, if you stop being so bossy and become more receptive as to what is expected of you, I imagine that if you apply yourself, not more than six months or a year will go by before you have a Lucid Dream or ... even better... a Big Vivid Dream (the same as a Lucid Dream, in intensity, but you don't go about ruining it with control).