I do not get it.

I have a friend that has been trying to recall dreams better, not go lucid. He has actually gotten a few lucid dreams though with minor control.

My brother, whom got involved with LDing when I did, has had a couple dreams where he went lucid (but lost it due to various reasons).

Now, none of this would bother my much but I am the one actually obsessed with this stuff. My brother and friend get any and all lucid dreaming information through me, and yet, I have had maybe one dream (at the very end of it) where I was about to go lucid.

I think about it all the time, and yet, I almost have nothing to show. I even have better dream recall than both of them and have been trying the techniques (which they have not as far as I know). Heck, they do not even perform RCs during the day.

Maybe my problem is trying too hard. It has been said that when you don't desire something it will come to you. Maybe that is the next technique I need to try hehe.

Otherwise, I have no idea what I am doing wrong. Maybe they are more natural at becoming aware within a dream . . .