jeffoncom, I'm married and my husband knows that I have this little "hobby" but he doesn't get into LDing at all and he barely remembers his dreams (unless they're disturbing).

What I recommend if you're married (or have to share quarters) and, if you can afford it..(and you think "vibrations" would wake you).. is getting an "Invisible Clock".

This small clock can be set to vibrate or beep or both. There are three vibration levels and you can set up to 12 alarms! I often use the vibration setting on the highest level, wrap the small clock in a face towel and simply lay the clock so that it's pressed against my body. The vibration isn't "jarring" and another plus to a vibrating clock is that it doesn't disturb anyone else when it goes off (not even my husband who is laying right next to me)!

Below is one of the websites that sell the Invisible Clock: http://www.buddhasplace.com/Merchant2/merchant.mvc?Screen=PROD&Product_Code=IC101&Catego ry_Code=Clocks

BTW.. I am in no way affiliated with this company.. I just like the product!
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