My Girlfriend Indirectly Kills my LD's.

**AmazeO XD** · 12-19-2007 06:16 AM

Well, this isn't neccesarilly true, but sometimes I talk to her on the phone for hours before sleeping, and for some reason, I'm NEVER able to get a LD after talking to her. I mean, I love her and all, but... damnit love! Always getting in the way of my subconsicous hobbies.

Anyone else have a problem in which you sometimes lose sleep or think about a person or topic too much, and it affects your dreams?

**Eminence~** · 12-19-2007 06:39 AM

I've never had an adverse affect (that I've noticed) from talking to my other half before going to sleep. Sure, he affects my dreams in that he's in them a lot, but other than that I haven't noticed anything.
If anything, my recall has gone up.

**Kromoh** · 12-19-2007 09:06 AM

Well, I've certainly seens people saying that emotions can affect their recall and LDing... In fact, most people who report it say they usually have LDs after not so good situations. Maybe your subconscious tries to make up for it?

For example, on both my first and second LDs, I was sick. So I think I can trace a relation here

But what I'm saying might also be completely false, so don't cite me or anything

**Osimero** · 12-19-2007 09:24 AM

Well, I've certainly seens people saying that emotions can affect their recall and LDing... In fact, most people who report it say they usually have LDs after not so good situations. Maybe your subconscious tries to make up for it?

For example, on both my first and second LDs, I was sick. So I think I can trace a relation here

I know you said not to cite you, but...

Anyway, that probably had more to do with having a disturbed sleep than anything involving emotion.

**Kromoh** · 12-19-2007 09:29 AM

I know what yo umean, but you must agree that important factors cause emotional stress on us. I, myself, become the true form of anger when I'm sick - I really dislike being sick. Actually I recall another LD of mine, when I had caught a cold for the freezing weather, and I dreamt I was at a warm beach.

Yes, emotional stress can affect sleep, but I thinks dreams are much more influenced by it.