Thread: Whould it be possible to find the girl of your dreams?

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Originally Posted by MrDamon

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Haha same stuff I'e heard before. I always new I was thinking the right way, but of course I found this out tooo late

Originally Posted by MrDamon

Phonix,

If I had have known when I was 15...

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Great advice MrDamon! I think you are right on.

Phonix, I think MrDamon has it absolutely right in his answer. I know it's impossible for you to comprehend at age 15 what the rest of your life will be like, but you'll just have to take it on faith that even though your teenage years can be tough, you can do just about anything you want with the rest of your life. Man, I'm constantly amazed at how people in high school turned out, defying everyone's predictions. "Weird" kids now highly successful, "popular" kids turn into losers. Okay, enough preaching about that stuff...

You asked about gaining experience in your LDs, or asking questions of DCs. I think that's a healthy perspective. You know, even in waking life (and in dream life), I think a good exercise is to ask yourself (or DCs), what is a successful and happy and likable person like? How do they act? What things do they do that draws people to them, or that makes them a good person? You don't have to LD to do this, just look at people you admire, whether they're fictional or real. What qualities do they have? Why not "act" like them? I obviously don't mean being fake, or annoyingly copying someone else in every way, but what's wrong with adopting qualities you like? For example, If I admire the way James Bond is brash and bold, why not act like him? Again, I don't have to adopt a phony (for me) British accent, but I can walk up to women confidently like he would, or act clever like him -- you get the idea.

In an LD, maybe summon the girl of your dreams, and ask her what she looks for in a man. Maybe she'll give you some interesting insights into qualities you can adopt IRL. If you don't get the answers you're looking for, just take the qualities you see IRL and apply them.

This is totally off topic, but FWIW, I can tell you that what women say they want is not necessarily what they really want, be they real or in dreams! TRUST ME ON THIS. Women won't generally tell you this, but they want men who:

1) are CONFIDENT (not arrogant, but confident almost to the point of being cocky)
2) are funny
3) are interesting (To be interesting, you must DO INTERESTING THINGS)
4) don't talk too much about themselves, and listen to them
5) don't show too much interest in them, aren't too "needy" -- that is, you have to be elusive. The second they think you're easy to get, or show too much interest in them, they'll write you off 100% of the time
6) have good hygiene and take care of themselves

These are things ANYONE can do, it just takes practice; notice I didn't say "good looking," "popular", "rich", etc. Those things don't hurt, but they're superficial , aren't necessary, and won't last. You will be amazed with the results you will see if you do these 6 things. If you don't know how to do any of these things, ask or watch someone who does, or read a book. Anyone can do this stuff. You will not need or even want a dream girlfriend, you will be too busy fighting off real girls, believe me. And don't sweat this stuff too much. Just like LDs, practice these things, and if you try too hard, you've missed it. Don't talk to women with the intention of dating them -- just talk to lots of them, and soon enough you'll see results. At the least, you'll get experience and hopefully make some friends until you get comfortable with it all, then you can seek them out for dating.

Happy dreaming, and good luck finding that woman of your dreams in real life too.

Again thx you very much. I will take your advice too. I could follow those rules. I just need to start fresh again after I leave school. I will question a dream girl about wat they look for in men but hope its not rubbish answers like, "donkeys love carrots" lol.

You may get something very cryptic, depending on how poetic you are in real life.

I hope not.

Originally Posted by phonix

Again thx you very much. I will take your advice too. I could follow those rules. I just need to start fresh again after I leave school. I will question a dream girl about wat they look for in men but hope its not rubbish answers like, "donkeys love carrots" lol.

Haha, very funny. Good for you, you've already mastered one of the 6 things! Hey, I don't know anything about your current school situation, but it never hurts to start practicing now, IMO! And like MrDamon said, you can expand your circle, go to new places and try out your techniques. Getting rejected 19 out of 20 times is not a bad thing, that equals 1 success!

BTW, if you find you're able to summon goddesses into your dreams at will, you better share with us all how you did it.

I will, I'll let you all in with a tip; to get the highest amount of lucid energy as I like to call it, do a proper WILD and you'll find that you can do a lot of things at will.

phonix my advice is to have fun in your dreams (wut we all do) but dont replace real life with dream life, thiers a girl out there for you , you just need to find her, sides we are both 15, some girls at my school think im "shit" cuz im such a jerk but others who im nice to like me (duh). so really just be nice and smile. you will get farther.