Yesterday, I had my first lucid dream with real control. It was short, but teleporting was natural untill I tried to teleport to Sex Land. That's my first problem. But previous to that, I have become lucid, but I awoke when I tried to teleport or fly or do anything fun. And today, I was being chased by a tiger and said I'm probabally dreaming. So I tried to teleport to a certain roon and woke up. Any advice? Here are the questions again.

1: In my first real controled lucid, I lost it when I strided for lucid sex. Why?
2: Whenever I try to fly, teleport, ect. I wake up. Why?
3: Any good alternitives to DILDs?
Thanks