I have the most horribly unrealistic dreams and I still can't realize that I am dreaming.

I've attempted WILDing for almost a month now and I go back to sleep, but I go into a dream I have no control of. For instance, I saw people in hazzard suits in a snow storm at my OLD house.

Then my parents started smoking pot in the 2nd dream last night.

Last night I went to bed telling myself,"I'm going to dream." I can't seam to wrap my mind around what I could be doing differently... I've tried DEILDing some too. The 3 lucids I've had so far were DILDs.