Lazy LDing - Afraid of destablization

[shannyball]

Lately I've been really lazy when I LD- I will do a RC, then I will play around with it a bit by asking a DC something specific. Like last night I had a funny dream where I hailed a taxi and the driver turned out to be Robin Williams - I asked the DC if he was REALLY Robin Williams and he shrugged at me and said "Sometimes" . But I didn't peruse it because I didn't want the dream to destabilize. I am however gaining some ground- that is to say I used to be afraid of my DC's because they would always turn evil when they noticed I was lucid and now they don't. Now the problem is that when I do try to get to in depth with them my dream begins to destabilize. How in depth can you get with a DC? What are some of your experiences trying to talk to DC's?

[IndigoGhost]

I have one very prominent DC. Mr Money Banks, That's right.... The monopoly guy. Don't ask me why but he keeps appearing, I'm just waiting for the Don't pass go don't collect £200 jokes, Anyway DC's can be weird if you feel your DE-stabilising try rubbing your hands together or do another RC that should usually help Or in fact you can even ask your DC to help by holding there hands, This will force your mind to become more active and physically aware! Hope this helps, and good luck!

[pond weed]

i have only had one WILD and that was accidental. but im trying a new techniqe where i imagine doing somthing (traveling somwhere etc) but i imagine all five senses. i dont know why but imagining all 5 senses (not just sight and sound) helps to stablize the scenario

[Mertruve]

How in depth can you get with a DC? With females - pretty deep.