Ok so i need help taking the first steps to lucid dreaming. 1st of all when i dream and i see my self what do i do or think or w.e to control my dream self . also when i do and have to test if its a dream or not. Well do i just test it out and i automaticly gain controol or what? and sometimes i do and i automaticly wake up any tips. Also just wondering do my dreams seem to last longer when i gain the ability to lucid dream like live in the dream for a good 20to 30mins of fun? and would anyone describe it as paradise? and can u feel stuff in it. o and just wondering is it hard to take control and stuff if u begin wit a nightmare all of a sudden and zombies are after u and u cant concentrate good enough?